I do a pretty good job with being competitive when I play a league match. BUT, when I play socially at my club, I have a hard time with the other ladies who are out there to prove themselves and show everyone up. When would a person have a chance to practice what they have learned in clinics? Practice a down the line shot? The problem is that even the social matches are so darn competitive for the bragging rights. Really sucks the energy out of you for the matches that count. Any tips on how to handle this? Ladies, BTW, I swear they are worse than men. The pouting is ridiculous!