How do you get a girl to like you?

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  1. UW_Husky88

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    lol, I feel like a total loser posting on an online forum asking for dating advice, but how do you get a girl that you're friends with to like you lol? The problem isn't making her know I exist, but I think I might be subconciously doing stupid things (well not really stupid things, but just trying too hard without realizing it) to get her attention, but I really want her to like me. The problem is she's way out of my league, so how would you guys go about doing this?
     
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    You have to let her know you have something she desires. Find out what she wants in a guy and let her know you have it. For starters, tell her you are a Ranked tennis player who is going to turn pro one day.
     
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    Put it this way, if she doesn't already like you, then she's not going to like you. I'd say you should ask her out or give her some obvious signs and if she doesn't show interest, don't waste any more time trying to impress her...you'll just look like a fool. There are plenty others out there.
     
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    Sing "Hey There Delilah" to her but replace "Delilah" with her name. Works like a charm.
     
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    Ask her personal questions such as what she looks for in a guy and see if she shows some interest in you. If not you could always ask her out and have her say no but the chance of yes is there. It is better finding out instead of being left wondering 'what if' for the rest of your life. If she is worth having as a friend she will let you down gently and remain friends so there isn't a whole lot to lose.
     
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    Chocolates....
     
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  7. power_play21

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    tell her a bunch of sweet flowery lies to make yourself sound like the perfect guy, tell her all she ever wanted to hear you know, make yourself sound like the next savior of the world, feeder of the hungry children, ambassador of moral an civility. then when you start noticing her eyes shiny when you talk to her, ask her out to dinner, pretend to know about cuisine, that you cook really well, btw, you learned it with your italian grandman when you were a kid in sicily (theres a goo lie to start with). then after dinner, take her home and show her your wine collection (buy whatever, girls dont know about this **** anyways) and tell her about terroirs, and how soil and weather affect the grapes, tell her that that is like people, an she woul be like a fine french wine. omg this has never failed for me. so i hope you can have succes with my secret formula for getting girls to like you no matter what.

    disclaimer: i am not responsible for anything.
     
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  8. Fee

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    Husky, let me know when you want a woman's answer to this question, since that is who you are trying to attract (instead of a bunch of guys with suspicious dating histories ;) ).
     
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  9. Pleepers

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    I'd say the Brit is spot on ;)

    Good luck kid!
     
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    Elevate your league.

    Well, that's more of a long term approach.

    I learned a lot about this when I went from being a 4th year medical student to a physician intern. I was like somebody threw a light switch on. Everything was suddenly so much easier. I was kinda' sad, in a way. I thought a sensative personality and being a really nice person accounted for more, but it turned out I just didn't have what they were looking for...until I had what they were looking for.

    The reality is if you don't have what she wants, you can do anything and everything, and it won't matter. You're interested in her because she has what you want (and we know what that is, and that's perfectly normal); but do you have what she wants? They want you to have status, power and money. Good looks, personality, kindness, great insights, play guitar, play tennis...that's all good too. But you gotta' have something to bring to the party, if you know what I mean.

    So, if she's out of your league and unattainable...learn something from it. Up your league! There will be many more opportunities. Be prepared next time.
     
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    You make a deal with the most popular girl in school. She teaches you how to be popular and in return, you give her money to fix her parent's car, which she wrecked while they're on vacation. She will teach you how to dance, dress, and behave. Soon, the girl you had your eye on is in love with you but, aghast!, so is your style mentor. But you guys will all learn an important lesson. Good luck.
     
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    Believe that you are God's gift to women (I know I am) and approach her confidently.

    "Hi.. what's your name?"
    the rest is history.
     
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  13. ShooterMcMarco

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    lol

    This may not be true with cougars, however with kittens, what girls say they want and what they react to are very different things.

    Husky, my advice to you is this:
    -Don't be validation seeking. Be comfortable with who you are and that magical word "confidence" that every girl wishes in a man will come out on its own.
    -If you get rejected, don't take it personally.
    -Give them good eye contact. Don't stare, just talk to them as if you known them for a while. Guys who avoid eye contact come across as too shy, weak and somewhat shady.
    -Don't get intimidated by beauty. Find a flaw in her. No matter how pretty she is you can make one up just so you won't psyche yourself out.
    -There is no such thing as women out of your league.
    -Relax
     
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    Yeah, that whole 'cougar' and 'kitten' terminology needs to die right now. Or an equally derogatory pair needs to be coined for the men (as in 'children' and 'slightly larger children'). But I digress... ;)

    Husky, no one is out of your league unless you believe that she is out of your league. We don't have a caste system in the US, most consenting adults are free to mingle with whatever other consenting adults they choose (upon mutual agreement, of course).

    First, BE YOURSELF. Phony-ness and putting on an act is sooooo 80's (or so Reality Show script). If you try to impress her by being something you are not, she'll just bail when she finds out what you really are, right?

    You say she already knows you and you are friends? Go with that, it means that you already have a foot in the door. Stop being so nervous and doing stupid things, just be a friend. Easy going, pleasant, polite, respectful, whatever. Pay attention to what she says and does, what she likes and doesn't like. If you have things in common, drop them into conversation, and don't be afraid to discuss the things that you don't have in common either (because that's being yourself). Once you've really begun to listen to her and get a feel for who she really is, then you can begin to woo her (because smart women like to be wooed).

    Pull her aside one day and ask her if you can take her to dinner someday. If she says yes, tell her that she can pick whatever day works best for her. You pick the restaurant, but make it a nice one. Be yourself, even if yourself is a little bit nervous (because a little bit of that can be endearing). Be honest as well. Liars are losers.

    If she says that no, she doesn't want to go to dinner with you, just say okay, let me know if you change your mind, and then let it go. The friendship is the most important thing. And you never know, she might start looking at you and wondering... and then come back to you later on and say yes (this really does happen).

    Just be yourself, and be honest. :)
     
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  15. Zets147

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    don't go for the dinner dates, go for lunch. lunch = yummy

    (a date at a cafeteria is guaranteed victory).
     
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  16. Fee

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    Lunch can be good too, especially for the young man on a budget. Also, it gives a more casual feel to the invitation. Dinner can be very serious to some people.
     
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  17. ShooterMcMarco

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    Cubs and Lions?

    Guppies and Sharks?

    I'd take it a step lower than lunch, meet for coffee or a smoothie.
     
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    There is not enough specifics in the OP. You need to post a little about yourself, about the girl, the history, and what you want from her, etc., and then this thread would really come to life. "i'm a guy and i want a girl to like me" - too vague and generic (by our forum standards) for a good discussion, sorry.
     
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  19. akoni

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    teach her to play tennis ;)
     
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    Tell her you just won the lottery. j/k.

    Instead of approaching it as "how to get her to ____," just
    try to get to know her better. See what you have in
    common and plan activities that you both my enjoy.
    Look for new things you both haven't done before but may
    like. Really be present and relax so that you're not a
    spaz when you hang out with her (I'm not suggesting you
    do what TED did in THERE'S SOMETHING ABOUT MARY though).
    Really listen to what she says and remember it.
    (e.g. she says she like sweet tangerines, maybe bring her
    one next time you see her. but if you
    weren't paying attention, you may accidentally get her a
    kumquat and peel it for her and then she'll get a whole lot
    of sourness.)
     
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  21. BreakPoint

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    I don't know, dude. If she's way out of your league then she's always going to have the upper hand in the relationship and you'll likely just end up being her doormat.

    And what do women say? Oh yeah, they usually know within the first 15 seconds of meeting a guy if they're ever going to have sex with him. So I think the odds are probably not in your favor. Hate to say it, but it's probably best to move on.
     
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    Of course, "just be yourself" is good advice... but how many of us can truly follow it.
    It's kind of like saying "Don't be nervous - just play your game" to someone who's playing in the Semis of a tennis tournament for the first time. Easily said, but...

    You could try this...
    Buy her a sonic vibrating toothbrush.

    She'll either find that it's bizarre that you're concerned about her teeth, or she'll understand the other manner in which she can use such a toothbrush. If the latter, it will open up a whole new door in your relationship.
     
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    I'd like to think I've learned two things over the years, it may just be me though. Had a lot of fun earlier on in life, had an amazing job, a sports car, a big house, too much money and so many girls. I spent a lot of time "being that guy", I wanted to be someone else, I should have been me. Then I lost it all, aged 24. The girls dissapeared, and the people I thought I knew did too. I spent the last 4yrs just being a normal guy again, met a girl when I least expected it and now I'm getting married in June. She is my world. So why the rambling story :), what did I learn?

    Firstly you have to just be yourself and just let it happen, I know this is very hard but its the only way. If you really like this girl, then just be yourself and just ask her out sometime. If she says no then thats cool, I know it hurts but don't worry about it and just enjoy being friends. Often you find someone when you least expect it and when your back is turned. If its not meant to be, don't try and force it. Even if you did get together briefly like that it wouldn't last

    Secondly there are a lot of people out there that want to be with other people because of what they have or what they want or some image they project. Again you need to be you and you'll find someone you like. The point is that its important to have fun and enjoy being with this person, not think you should because they are striking or because other people think they are great. Take the time to know them, not to try and project yourself and here is the key, know them, not something they have or an image they project. If you can really connect, thats what you want, and thats in how you are together, you need to be able to be completely relaxed and just be, that is the most important.

    To answer your question directly, the fundamental thing is you can't get her to like you, you just have to be you and hope it works out. This doesn't mean give up, it just means live your life, have fun, be friends and just ask her out sometime. If it happens, it happens, if it doesn't then hey, continue as above. If it doesn't work out that way, it probably wasn't meant to.

    I'm not a girl unfortunately when it comes to giving this type of advice but thats the way I see it. I hope it helps
     
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    This is far better advice than mine :)
     
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    By the way, not to be the wet blanket (better than a wet sock in this instance), but girls pretty much know if they're going to bone you within the first few minutes, after that, it's really difficult, if not impossible, to change their perception of you.

    Aside from that, without knowing you, it's impossible to say what would work for YOU. Some guys get girls by being jerks, and others by being super nice. And then there's everything in between. Confidence is disarming and can get a girl interested, but, then again, plenty of girls out there like the shy emo types, they see confidence as cocky.

    Good luck!
     
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    You know, I don't understand why so many people believe this...it is utterly ridiculous IMO. With any of my relationships, I didn't even become attracted to the guy until I got to know him. I refuse to think that I'm just some kind of throw back.
     
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    If you're young, plan and live your life. If someone comes along and is a good friend, then appreciate having friends. If the relationship grows, then it grows. If not, you have friends.
     
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    what about 'you are so beautiful'? :eek:


    I was in a situation like this before... hehe just ask her 'how was your day' and develop into a nice conversation... and then when you're alone you let out your 'fiery instincts' ;) haha just joking (but the 'how was your day' bit is very correct).

    The most important thing is to just act yourself around her; a good person don't like showy-offy people. Just make your moves subtle and sweet. Try to hang out with her more, and just wriggle your way into her world. Try to be a 'gentleman'! haha good manners always works!
     
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  29. Fedfan4life

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    I'd say change your appearance and personality like this dude then you'll be a stud muffin. Girls will be eating out of your hands very soon after. Enjoy the vid.

    http://youtube.com/watch?v=3n6s_TRKG5w
     
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    Yeah, I agree. I've never made that decision about a man that quickly in my life. In fact, quite the opposite usually.

    I had a classmate in one of my college courses (years ago). He sat in the desk next to me every class, 3 days a week. All I noticed was this dark hair and a nose because he was so shy he spent most of the class time with his head down staring at his text book. One day in class something moderately amusing happened and while we were all laughing about it, he happened to catch my eye and smile at me, almost by accident. We started to say hello to each other in class after that, and about 3 weeks later he asked me if I would help him study for the final. We met on campus a few times, then went out once, and started dating after the class ended. My attraction to him grew over time, so yes, it can and does happen.
     
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  31. ShooterMcMarco

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    I agree with this. In my experiences, whenever people told me to be myself I never was. I was insecure and uptight which didn't allow me to be in a relaxed state where I can genuinely be myself. To truly be yourself you have to drop all of your insecurities and stop looking for validation from others. Interactions with girls are supposed to be fun and easy, none of it is supposed to be hard and nerve racking. You'll find that you have the most success when everything is free flowing and you don't care about the outcome of the interaction. Girls are naturally socially savvy and they'll pick up easily whether or not you're comfortable to be around them.
     
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    Seriously lol?? to me theres no such thing as out of your league if she likes you then she likes you. Just text her, talk on the phone with her at night then when she gets more comfortable with you ask her out and bam! but it takes time.
     
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    Go for it. If you don't you'll regret it later in life. Probably be tough, but anything worth anything usually is.
     
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    Yes,

    provided this is the same type of girl who'll go to the dentist for a haircut.
     
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    Since you asked:

    1) Never attempt to apply logic to a woman. They are pretty much all crazy and the hotter they are, they crazier they tend to be. (Not an absolute, but almost an absolute.)

    2) If possible, become very rich and/or a celebrity. Suddenly, she will find you irresistibly attractive no matter how hideous you truly are.

    3) Get her alone, get her very drunk, make a gentle move and see what happens.

    4) Tell her you are a homosexual and become her best girl friend. Then implement number 3 and add something like "Even though I'm not normally attracted to women, I find myself very attracted to you." It could work. See Item 1.

    5) Find someone who likes you already and focus your attentions on her.
     
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  36. drakulie

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    Get her jealous by telling her you are interested in someone. If this doesn't work, read Sean Dugan's advice. If that doesn't work, take a club to her.
     
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    I love those movies, same plot about 5 diff 80's-2000's movies rigth?

    Fee I mean this in a really good way. And you are obviously a very stable, self assured, intelligent woman.... which you know makes you a complete freak and the exception that proves the rule. ;-)

    I'd add one more NEVER, EVER tell a girl something like "you are to good for me" or "I'm so lucky to be with you" or "why do you like me" when a chic would say that to me I would run for the hills.

    And Sean Dugan you are a genius!! Now the trick to number 3, so you don't become a date rapist ;-) Afew drinks is cool, so drunk she can't walk not cool. Alchohol as social lubricant is time tested but like I said don't be that guy. Also, I stayed in the dorms in college for 3 years for a reason, easy access. I was in coed dorms so we would all hang out, and it was all friendly, playing cards or whatever. Then it's a month or year later. Your at a club or party see ________ bam instant hook up maybe more cause she confesses she likes you. Just like money :) youth is wasted on the young.
     
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  38. Sean Dugan

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    I think he means take her to a club.

    The other arrangement could cause you some problems. ;o)
     
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    If you read his other posts you wouldn't question the spelling.
     
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    "And Sean Dugan you are a genius!! Now the trick to number 3, so you don't become a date rapist ;-) Few drinks is cool, so drunk she can't walk not cool. Alcohol as social lubricant is time tested but like I said don't be that guy."

    Not a genius. Just a lot of experience. But, some people think I am pretty shmart.

    I never advocated getting her unconsciously drunk. Just drunk enough to throw caution to the wind. Wine is fine but liquor is quicker. A few tequila shots should do the trick. Just make sure most of your shots are water. ;o)

    Besides, she has to be sober enough to legibly sign the consensual sex release form. ;o)

    All kidding aside, as someone wise said above, you can't make someone like you. Just very casually ask her on a date. To the movies, something non-threatening. If she says yes, just be indifferent yet entertaining and please try not to slobber all over yourself since you obviously have no game or game plan. If she says no, no biggie, stay friends and keep sniffing around. Eventually you may nail her yet. These things are usually about endurance, being able to absorb punishment and momentum. It could take years. Just make a game out of it and don't take it seriously. Like ascending a staircase (or is it a head case?), one step at a time.

    PS. Get a calculated game plan that gets you what you want. Otherwise, you're just some sap that gets to pay for everything. And don't expect to close the deal on one date. You're going to have to be patient. Management by Objective. ;o)
     
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    or do what the other guy said be a doctor get chics. Just remember she will still cheat on you with the garbage man that looks like a calvin klein model, and belches the alphabet. Sucks but so is life. Women will have one night stands with dudes they would never date seriously. So stupid question, what are your intentions. Just getting some or a GF?
     
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    Hmmm, now you are stalking me??? And you say people have to worry about me. :roll:
     
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    stalking? ..... er ok. and I think I hear your mommy calling you for some peanut butter and jelly sandwiches. Enjoy Skippy.
     
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    Skippy is the best peanut butter ever. don't be using that name to put down other posters. except drak, he's aight.
     
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    I swear, reading this thread makes me soooo happy that I'm married and don't have to put up with this type of behavior any more.

    RichW, thanks for the compliment. :)

    To the rest of you, if the women in your life are insane, it's because they've been driven to that point by the men in their lives, the poor female role models (neither Sex in the City or Laguna Beach are real), and the lack of honest guidance from adults who know better. I've learned a lot from some very bad experiences and a long period of low self esteem in my college years. Based on that, I would beg of the men on this forum one thing - BE HONEST with the women in your lives. The women may not be able to handle it at first, but stick with it. It truly is the best in the long run.
     
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    LOL. YOu can not be Serious!!!!!


    Question???? Best thing for whom???
     
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    I couldn't agree more. Show me a "crazy" woman and 999999999 to 1 there is some dbag in her past. To the honesty part, depends on OP's intentions. I must admit that when I was 18-22 or so I would act very differently than now. When I was younger like most guys I had my buddies and wasn't looking for a girlfriend. I never had a relationship last over 3 weeks after first "personal encounter", I even stopped calling a really sweet girl once cause she asked me to take her to the grocery store, and I decided she was too much trouble(I still feel bad about that one), but I grew up.

    So if you just want to get some listen to Duncan and most the other dudes in this thread they are close to the mark for most <23 year old women.

    If you want a relationship, be sincere, and honest, and nice, and it'll work out if it's meant to be.
     
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  48. Fee

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    For everyone involved. And that includes being honest about just wanting a one night stand. Most women can handle that if you tell them up front (heck, some of them may just be looking for the exact same thing, especially the smart ones who know that certain men you 'date' and other men you marry.).

    Rich, you are right. A lot of it has to do with the age of the people involved. People in their 20's should be dating and meeting people, learn as much as they can about themselves, their preferences, etc. But that doesn't give them license to be complete eejits about it, male or female.
     
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  49. UW_Husky88

    UW_Husky88 Rookie

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    You know, she's expressed interest in trying out for the team even though she's never played. And, although I hate to sound like a snob, I think I'm decent at teaching beginners how to play. I mean, I have to help my team out with their technique issues all the time, and I think I might be able to help her. The thing is that I'm scared to tell her that lol. I don't know why, I mean, like I said, we're friends, so it shouldn't be weird, but I dunno.

    Btw, if you want to know about the girl and me, here's something I can say:

    About Me: I'm not what I, or realistically speaking, most girls would find super attractive. I mean, honestly, I'm just not. I'm pretty introverted, but get along with all sorts of people.

    About Her: She's not the most attractive girl in the school. I mean, I think she's FAR from being ugly, but she's not like the stereotypical teenage drama queen that only cares about her looks either, or even exceedingly well above average. The thing is, she's also smarter than me, and fitter, which is why I'm not sure what she could see in me.

    but yeah, thats what I have to say about her and me.
     
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  50. Zets147

    Zets147 Banned

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    "hey, you wanna play some tennis this weekend? I got a new can of balls"

    "sounds fab!~"

    Do it.
     
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