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Discussion in 'Adult League & Tournament Talk' started by pandal3oy, Mar 25, 2009.

  1. pandal3oy

    pandal3oy New User

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    i guess it was just one of those moments when u had to be there but yes i should have never came on here to complain.

    5 people, 4 of whom i did not know came up to me at the end and said he cheated on crucial points so that was not me complaining. i lost and thats all that matters. no one will remember the match but only see the score itself.

    i am actually a sectional umpire from another state. ever since i moved here it seemed like a norm for people to call over umpires for 3rd set tie breaks. there were no other courts on our side playing and the umpire was just picking up trash so i just asked him so he didnt go out of his way. people call me over all the time to keep their tie breaker scores.
     
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  2. Joeyg

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    And the bus was late, and the dog ate my homework, and I didn't have any clean clothes, and the sun was in my eyes, and my allergies were acting up, and I don't like playing pushers, etc.

    WHAT A LOAD!!!
     
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  3. blakesq

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    Can you squeeze anymore excuses in there Chucky?


     
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  4. dwhiteside

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    You got defeated, plain and simple. Either get better or quit tennis.
     
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  5. pandal3oy

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    wow arent we all cranky today haha.

    just felt like sharing a story about how its hard to play against people who calls close balls out to win.
     
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  6. Joeyg

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    Or a cautionary tale of someone who throws around excuses to lose.
     
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  7. Aldi Patron

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    Well...at least you used paragraphs. There's always that.
     
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  8. Geezer Guy

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    You were cruzing in the second set. You should have rushed straight through the TB without changing a thing.
    But, you got cute, went and found an umpire, had him keep score (and then didn't pay attention), and blew your momentum.
     
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  9. JavierLW

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    Yes that's true, but it happens to all sorts of people.

    The problem isnt that you had an issue with it.

    The problem is that it happens so much that we hear about it all the time....

    It's just not good reading to hear someone cry and whine about something no matter how legitimate it is. Are we supposed to feel sorry for you? Why?

    That's just life, it's supposed to be an honorable game, but some people are not honorable so all you can really do is think less of them.

    Also Im not sure why you called an umpire over to keep score. I dont think they normally do that, they are not your servants.

    If your intention is to make sure the right score is kept track of then take some responsibility and keep on top of it yourself.

    That is WHY he probably insisted that you repeat the score. It's not any different then when there is no official and your opponent calls out the wrong score, you have to realize it and correct it when it occurs.

    Also Im not sure if you know this but they are not there to correct bad calls either. You can ask them if the ball was out (if your opponent called it), but otherwise they are not allowed to say anything.

    They are not a chair umpire or anything because we're not on TV....

    Most of us are not playing on TV so it's normal that we keep track of our own score.

    I wont blame you for making all excuses though. At least you realize that blew it in the first set. It sounds more to me that if you would of taken the time to better prepare yourself for the match and maybe you had the mental jitters that didnt allow you to perform your best at the critital point in those games. (along with frustration over the calls of course)

    I think if you work on the things you can control and look at it from a performance perspective you'll find that it's a lot more fun.
     
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  10. pandal3oy

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    haha nah i dont want anyone to feel sorry for me. i actually had fun in the match. the people who watched me were frustrated for me and i didnt even know them hahaha. i was the one who told them the match was over and nothing can be done. i told my friend i was proud of myself cuz i came to the net more than i ever did and played pretty well.

    i just know in the long run the guy i played wont get any better if he keeps making bad line calls. actually one of the guys watching was scouting our match cuz he was gonna play one of us next. he was one of the guys that pointed out he made bad calls too. he was like "im going to destroy him for u." lol i thought that was funny cuz he was mad for me. i thought it was pretty cool of him to back me up and i had no clue who he was. he beat him in straight sets the next round.

    im always pretty positive. the match was over and i left it at that. i was proud of myself how i played the 2nd set.

    thanks everyone. time to close the thread!
     
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  11. ssgator80

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    Chriss - is that you. Sounds just like a guy I know who plays tournaments in Fla. Problem is he gets beat, then blames everything else, even calls guys cheaters. Every guy is going to miss a call now and then. I not losing a match over one bad call or even 5 calls. If I see he is calling close - just take something off put them well within lines and kick his ass.
     
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  12. JLyon

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    As an umpire that is the mistake he made, umpires when called onto court do not keep the score for the players, but rather in their heads in case a dispute occurs or reminding them to change sides at appropirate time. The umpire should be asking players to call scores in order to confirm correct or incorrect score.

    In regards to Javier about Umpires not correcting calls unless verbally appealed, that is incorrect. An umpire once on court or even roving can automatically correct calls if clearly seen, without a verbal appeal, as long as it is a USTA match
     
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  13. JavierLW

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    Okay but does that mean someone has a right to get all over some umpire's case if they dont correct a call? (I assume in a lot of cases unless it's obvious they'd have to give the player making the call the benefit of the doubt)

    Or maybe if they are obviously calling it early they can at least say something about that?

    I guess my point was to not add the umpire into this whole emotional explanation about how the whole world was against him that day, and the score was called wrong, and there were bad calls, and his shoelace was untied, etc, etc......

    After all, he's the one who choose to go get an umpire when like GG said, he was easily cruzing thru the 2nd set.

    That's a classic mistake. (as well as apparantly not paying attention to what the scoring format was before the match which can cause more of a distraction)

    That's something I struggle with sometimes as well.

    Nobody want's to get taken advantage of so you want to take extra steps to avoid that, however you can break your momentum and distract yourself from being able to perform if you go too far.
     
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  14. Geezer Guy

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    I don't know. At Sectionals last fall I was observing a team mates match. A roving official just happened to be walking past their court as they started the 3rd set tiebreak. The official stood at the net, next to the score-card flipper thing, and flipped the numbers after each point. Now, to be honest (and I hadn't thought of it before now) I don't know if he was flipping the cards based on the calls the players made on the court - or if he was flipping the cards based on his judgement of who won the previous point. There weren't any disputes, so nothing came up.
     
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  15. KOPT

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    oh man,so many exuses,so you lost,so what,so couple points were called wrong,i dont think it was a reason you lost.Why try and find exuse for your loss,maybe you better learn from it?
     
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