Noobie question about mixed doubles: When entering a tournament, is it simply a matter of adding the two individual NTRP's together or does it matter who is the higher rated player, the man or woman? I see a lot of mixed posts where the man is the higher rated player. My partner, my wife is a 4.5 whereas I'm a 4.0. Does it make a difference from the standpoint of what division to enter? The reason I ask is that a 4.5 man paired with a 4.0 woman is most likely a stronger team than we would be.