Topaz, I understand one of Mtommer's points, which is this: The reward for working hard at your tennis is your improved tennis, not your trophy. Therefore if someone disrespects your trophy or says they wouldn't value such a trophy for themselves, who cares? What I don't get is this. 1. Jolly said something you believe to be rude. 2. Jolly has not withdrawn his statement or apologized, and he never will. Why is there ever any reason to ever mention it ever again ever?