Work in a Wall St firm. After a year or more of "we should get together and play" among my peers and one superior, it finally happened this past Saturday. I play 4.0. One was a 2.5+, the other a 2.5, and the third wouldn't carry a rating. We wound up giving him unlimited serves just so he wouldn't DF on every point he started. It was OK socially, but for me the drive and the tennis aren't worth the trip. Now a couple of the guys (the 2.5+ and the 0.0) are all excited and want to do this regularly. We're all officers of the bank. The 2.5 levels are peers, and of course the 0.0 is a managing director and although not in my direct reporting line is a peer of my MD. Anybody ever extracted themselves from this type of situation?