CC, I haven't done one of those dinners, but did go to a party where there was something similar.
I got the idea for Valentines from a book I read a few years ago, "1001 Ways to be Romantic". Yes, even though I party and kid-- I am a hopeless romantic. It is a great book. I love doing goofy/silly things like that. The people at the restaraunt were really cool, and really got into the whole "role playing" as well. And yes, the "instructions" went on in to the night which included a certain more "appropriate wardrobe". YUMMY!
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