Dats The Specs you mention sound eerily like a ProKennex Kinetic Pro 5G
Or the 7G which is just .5 longer.
And they are both cheap.
But I also know you like to tinker with silicone and lead and what not and they leave you no room to do so.
So the Head Youtek speed elite (the ones on sale for 140 each, but Im sure the new ones will be close to the same) may be one to look at. its 10.7strung weight would give you room to play. And the rest of the specs are pretty close.