Originally Posted by Bobby Jr
Are you Chinese?
If not, it was never going to happen if she was from a remotely traditional family. Many Chinese (and Japanese, and Thai and Malaysian for that matter etc) would go out with a foreigner no problems but when it comes time to get serious the vast majority invariably turn to their own people.
This is how things roll sometimes... I'm sure you'll get over it.
No I just live here, and yes I've experienced that a lot too.