Originally Posted by ninman
I'm more like Niles Crane from Frasier. As attracted as he was to Daphne, when she was with someone he never made a move on her. I'm the same, while she's married I will just be her friend and nothing more. If she's happy I have no right to interfere, and besides we barely no each other, so it's not worth it.
If you think you don't have right to interfere then don't even be so nice to yourself saing "I will be only her friend" because we all know it's not going to work that way.
there are tons of good suggestions here to get over it.
I know you can get over this for sure