The 95D may be the culprit on the elbow BC. It sure bugged mine. Its that stiff top area of the hoop.
Anyway, my setup probably won't help much..its more for a flexy stick.
Og Sheep Micro 16 at around 58#s crossed with Topspin Cyberflash at 54#s. Really, really great setup for me.
I don't think the 95D is for you based on your posts. Its more for guys who hit flatter, come from a heritage stick like a Pro staff and grew up playing tennis.