I can't stand the snobbery around here when self-proclaimed 'proper tennis players' lose to those with greater consistency than themselves.
Consistency is part of talent. This is why Rosol is less talented than, I dunno, Ferrer for example.
You lack the talent to compete with these people you label as 'pushers', and, no the match is not even on your racket, because the 'pusher' is using your inconsistency against you. They are controlling you. Not the other way around.
Either get more consistent and beat them, or lose to them and have respect, don't lose to them and b!tch about it like you were the more 'worthy' winner of the match.