Woopy, I don't get it. You obviously hate getting out of your comfort zone.
If that's the case, then just enjoy loose hitting with who ever you like to play with, because the idea of having balls fed in your striking zone by your opponent in a match, is just plain ridiculous. These guys in above posts are right. Pushers like the pace. I personally don't mind having a hit with them. (for some reason they don't want to play with me any more) It's a perfect training for dealing with dead balls. If you ever want to get better you have to learn to deal with them to the point where you actually enjoy it.