How's your daughter's wrist doing? What did you end up doing?
Be careful with the amount of practice and competition a bit. I know of 5 girls age ~12-13 yr old that stopped playing tournaments for 8-12 months because of the wrist or shoulder issue. Theses are all nationally ranked, 4 or 5 stars kids practicing hard and playing tons of tournaments. Gotta give the growing body a break sometimes.