In addition to what goober said which I completely agree with, an NTRP rating is ultimately based on results against other NTRP-rated players. No NTRP points are assigned for style that I know of so watching video can be misleading. Only results matter.
Are there no 3.5 NTRP players in your non NTRP leagues and classes that you could look at and/or hit with?
A Head Microgel Radical, a Neos 1k, and a Silent Partner Star. Life is good.