I get the opposite. I usually lose my matches, and I always experience the winning player complimenting me left and right about how I played. People seem to always say I have an "amazing" forehand, or I always hit with good pace, or have a backhand that "they had a lot of trouble with". Well, if I was so good, I would have beaten them, right?
I don't get complimenting people like that. I never do, if I beat someone, I just say thanks, and shake their hand.