Just watched the whole vid...
You hit like you can almost hang with 4.5's.
You play like a strong hitting, good form, low level 4.0.
Your opponent in white another strong hitting, good form player at 3.5.
You need to hit CC more just to establish basic 4.0, or at least hit good forcing shots DTL.
Your hitting is there, you tactics, stategy, and mind set needs much more MATCH PLAY.