"because everytime i mention to other players i know that i have a pro-stock racket i have nothing to show that it really is one and your made to feel as though you have to prove it."
I think that you get over that at some point. It's cool to have something to show others but eventually you get down to the reasons why you use a pro stock and what it does for your game. It might be for better arm health, being able to get matched frames, or the ability to get extended length models.
4 x IG Prestige MP, 70 cm, 376 grams, 386 SW, ALU Power @50