Thank heavens for having this issue posted here.
I was struggling where to look before. If I looked at the tossed ball, I imagined the ball heading straight to me. Like it will not bounce at all. I know, its a bad habit. I may have a fear or something.
Now, I trained my eyes to really focus on the ball and assuming that will go to the net. That's it. I have a home-in focus that way.