Come on man, do you live in one girl city??
There are thousands of women out there, get together with your friends, grow some balls, meet some girls, make her feel like you're the guy to hang out with, you're the fun, and after all of that you make her live like she can't wait for a second to see you, still keep meeting women never mix up work with relationship, go out and meet them out there, that's fun, meeting girl/women that I worked with was always a turn off, nothing more boring and lame to me, my goal was to go out meet the hotties (not always I got what i was looking for), meet so many women that after sometime you'll know what you like and you'll have so much confidence in yourself that you can walk up to any woman and make her attracted to you.
Remember: Attraction can be triggered.
2X YY 97T 310 with YY PTSPIN 49/45. (Ezones Xi put away for now) 1x Yonex Ezone Xi Team Plus (Poly HS 54/50) for doubles---Yonex SHT 308!