Yes, a girl can certainly affect/effect our entire game..
I just got a crewcut in anticipation of 3 weeks in PuertoRico. She HATES it, really despises it. I've had long hair, down past my collar for 5 years. I love it, LOVE it.
Now realize, her Dad, her brother, her brother in law, all their boy cousins, ALL have short crewcuts.
I can't win for losing.