Thread: The Journey!!!
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Old 12-13-2012, 07:52 AM   #22
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Originally Posted by Olybel View Post
Hello to everyone,

Compliments for Talk Tennis forum and compliments also for this thread.

My 7 year old son introduced me to tennis half year ago when he brought brochure to home and started with training in local academy. Before that I was rarely even watched Nole games though everyone else in my family is fan of him.

It is logical that we as a parents have dreams , wishes and hopes for our children. So they have also. It is crucial that kids dreams wishes and hopes are set higher than ours for them.

There is no use if I dream his Wimbledon trophy if he doesn't.

As Kahlil Gilbran says:

....You may give them your love but not your thoughts,
For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not their souls,
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow,
which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
You may strive to be like them,
but seek not to make them be like you.
For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.....

English is not my native language therefore I apologize if any mistake is made.
Gilbran's quote are, in my opinion, exactly right. They apply directly to the junior tennis world. Kids sports would be so much better off if parents stopped living their dreams through the children. I know it is hard to do, I plead guilty myself. After many years of being an obsessive tennis parent I have reformed. It is much healthier.
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