I already read your note thrice and pondering on it. It gives me a totally different perspective about my son's future life(in a free world with plenty of opportunities and possibilities) and my own aspirations as a first generation immigrant parent.
I cannot explain certain things as well as you did but I know one thing for certain, you are a good son of proud parents.
When we talk about SLU, medical profession is not in our mind but rather a lower D1 school.
Yes, sometimes I do give career advise to him but don't want to force anything on him.
Thanks for your advise and I will definitely will tell my son to follow his heart.