You are definitely not in the minority. Tennis has a very high percentage of strange people who are wound tightly. There are at least three people on five courts of my tennis league who I do not like playing with or against and I tend to like everyone. Some of these people I just let slide with their bad calls simply because I am there to have fun. Do I want to win and compete? Sure. I also don't want to get into it with a guy who is a cheeseburger short of a Happy Meal.
NTRP 3.5 with < 130mph TTW serve | Head Microgel Radical MP (3g split at 3&9, 5g in handle) | Babolat Xcel French Open 16ga @ 58 | Year 2 of playing