Originally Posted by Cindysphinx
Well, I think I have a definitive answer on whether I struck the right balance: A repeat invitation to play with this group.
Thank goodness for that.
You could be right but I don't think it's necessarily a definitive answer to your question about striking the right balance.
The group could have been very polite or forgiving in nature. They may have asked you to come join them again with the hopes that you would have declined on the basis of there not being up to your skill level.