Originally Posted by goober
Tournament tennis= played to win unless this is some kind of "friendly club tournament" and you are going to see these people again. Serving hard at somebody is not bad form. Headhunting or hitting someone who has basically conceded the point would be. If you are obviously going to win you can dial it back, if the outcome is in doubt go all out.
Serve whatever will get the most free points or weak returns. Depending on what level the woman is, you might find that she'll have a hard time returning the kicker than your fast-paced first serve, so whichever one works best, use that one.