All those factors listed go with playing tournaments. I could respond to each one but it all boils down to being "tournament tough". Either you accept that's what it is or else just play Sunday afternoon doubles, hitting and giggling. I haven't played tournaments in quite sometime but when I did I realized that's what you deal with in competition. You also have the wind at times and the sun, heat, poor courts, bad low hanging nets, poor lighting, stupid spectators, you name it. It's like that in other sports too!
Wilson PSC6.1, but lookin for a Tweener.