Geesh, people need to lighten up. It is REC sport, for FUN.
I just don't get "if I am not winning I am not having fun" crowd. I am happy to be out there playing a game that I like very much. If you are playing people of same level, you are going to lose about half your matches. It seems it would be pretty crappy to not enjoy half your matches. And it is why people sandbag.
Life is too short to take things WAY too seriously. This is supposed to be fun. Smile a little. Your opponent is there to have fun, not to watch you have a root canal.