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Old 06-22-2013, 04:35 PM   #50
tommyfr
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I would take two approaches.

First, find out what tennis is in her life, how it compares with other special interests she might have (or had in the past), riding, soccer, piano, some youth group...and compared with other past times activities, malling, tv, reading books, fashion....

Second, based on the notion that "People are not lazy, they just have impotent goals", and in case tennis has a realistic potential to be a solid special interest in her life (based on above review, maybe with help of a graded questionnaire) then work with goal-setting in relation to tennis. And she must be part of this process.....
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