What to do with my broken heart?

sansaephanh · 11-10-2012, 09:11 AM

I can't seem to find any peace of mind. It hurts to see her constantly with someone else. flirting and stuff. I know I'm just being a pansy about it, but it doesnt change the fact that it hurts. Alot. I'd hate to say it, but tennis can't even distract me from how cute she is. That smile kills me man.

ollinger · 11-10-2012, 12:18 PM

It is all part of The Lord's infinitely mysterious plan whereby terrible things happen to decent people for absolutely no reason at all. Find comfort in this.

LeeD · 11-10-2012, 12:32 PM

hey Sansae....
Seriously...
Join the CalSailingClub for 75 bucks, 3 months. You learn to sail, windsurf, and meet more girls than you can count.

r2473 · 11-10-2012, 12:34 PM

I've slept with 25,000 women

maleyoyo · 11-13-2012, 05:17 PM

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Originally Posted by r2473

I've slept with 25,000 women

Wow that must have been one heck of a massive org…I mean party. How did I miss that?

To the OP: being hurt can’t be all bad.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4dOsbsuhYGQ

Big_Dangerous · 11-14-2012, 07:33 AM

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Originally Posted by r2473

I've slept with 25,000 women

Quality over quantity man.

r2473 · 11-14-2012, 07:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Big_Dangerous

Quality over quantity man.

Exactly. Otherwise it would have been more like 50,000

LeeD · 11-10-2012, 12:35 PM

Yeah, you and Wilt.

tbuggle · 11-10-2012, 12:37 PM

Don't sweat it, she's batshit crazy anyhow. They all are.

Mick · 11-10-2012, 12:46 PM

the cure is to find a better looking gf than the last one but it's not easy to find this cure

Hood_Man · 11-10-2012, 12:49 PM

Last Christmas I gave you my heart, but the very next day your body rejected it and you died.

norbac · 11-10-2012, 01:36 PM

Purchase Rod Stewart's new Christmas album "Merry Christmas, Baby", listen to it twice and await further instruction.

Power Player · 11-10-2012, 01:55 PM

Go out and meet other girls. You will still think about her for a bit, but your confidence will go back up and you will realize there are better options out there.

Worst thing you can do is sit around thinking about it.

stringertom · 11-10-2012, 02:09 PM

Man, what I would give to be young and living in the East Bay area today...there's got to be so much skirt to chase you might not ever get back on the tennis court until you can play USTA age bracket tourneys!

The mindset you need to adopt is that she made the flawed decision in dumping you...ergo, go enjoy that new-found freedom!

LeeD · 11-10-2012, 02:20 PM

You got that picture right!
EastBay, there is UCBerkeley, BerkeleyCC, Mills, colleges. Outdoor programs are going year round. You have snowboarding clubs, ski clubs, kayak clubs, sailing and windsurfing, and every girl wants to learn to kiteboard.
Year round tennis, botanical gardens, and all the surrounding NationalParks.
Even a geezer can luck into a g/f here.

Sentinel · 11-10-2012, 07:34 PM

http://youtu.be/Py3qW5HAg8U

sansaephanh · 11-12-2012, 12:24 AM

haha glad you guys are having fun with it! Feeling a bit better, but since when did a good laugh and a few hugs help not help.

Lol Leed, I'm going to follow your example! Actually met a nice latina that might be able to cure my woes... Best part? She plays tennis haha!

All said and done, I gotta grow some balls and accept that it wasn't right anyways and get a move on life!

Get busy livin or get busy dyin! - Shawshank Redemption

stringertom · 11-12-2012, 03:45 AM

Glad your perspective has become more far-sighted! And if the next one yanks you around too (and she will) the scar tissue you develop from the breakups is actually healthier for you the thicker it gets.

slymule · 11-12-2012, 04:37 PM

Think 'gripper'....nevermind, like looking for a needle in a haystack. Carry on.

SoBad · 11-12-2012, 04:46 PM

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Originally Posted by sansaephanh

I can't seem to find any peace of mind. It hurts to see her constantly with someone else. flirting and stuff. I know I'm just being a pansy about it, but it doesnt change the fact that it hurts. Alot. I'd hate to say it, but tennis can't even distract me from how cute she is. That smile kills me man.

You obviously need to snap out of this. I would just go to a party and hook up with a really hot guy, to mix things up.

11-10-2012, 09:11 AM	#1
sansaephanh Professional Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Oakland Posts: 1,120	What to do with my broken heart? I can't seem to find any peace of mind. It hurts to see her constantly with someone else. flirting and stuff. I know I'm just being a pansy about it, but it doesnt change the fact that it hurts. Alot. I'd hate to say it, but tennis can't even distract me from how cute she is. That smile kills me man. __________________ Newest entry into the Racketholic Anonymous. July 11th, 2012 :) Classified: We can't list the names of all the rackets we own in our signature. Lol

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ollinger Hall Of Fame Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 4,424	It is all part of The Lord's infinitely mysterious plan whereby terrible things happen to decent people for absolutely no reason at all. Find comfort in this. __________________ Angell 105 WC Silverstring

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r2473 Legend Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 5,349	I've slept with 25,000 women __________________ “It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society.”

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Hood_Man Legend Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Wales Posts: 6,897	Last Christmas I gave you my heart, but the very next day your body rejected it and you died. __________________ "You used to be able to disagree with people and still be friends." - Clint Eastwood

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norbac Legend Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 7,825	Purchase Rod Stewart's new Christmas album "Merry Christmas, Baby", listen to it twice and await further instruction. __________________ "It was like watching Dolgopolov, except that it all made sense"- Mikhail Youzhny on Evgeny Donskoy