she's a freaking 2.5 dood
if u r going to play tennis with virtual beginners then common sense says u should be somewhat accommodating
league or no league, this is basically social tennis. if u were a 3.5 who wanted competitive matchplay u wouldnt be playin against a team where one person cant even return most of ur shots
So, when I play with 4.5 guys, they should be nice and hit balls that I can get to? I have a couple of adjustments that I make when playing mixed with lower level women:
1. I do not target the women when she is at the net. I will hit a crosscourt shot or a passing shot behind her, but nothing that could damage. If she poaches, though, she puts herself back in the mix for being hit at.
2. I try not to be crazy returning her serves. If we are breaking her every time she serves, no need to rub it in and pound every second serve at her feet.
As far as serving goes, I have some power, but most of the time I serve for placement. I just serve normally to lower level women.
My point about league matches stands. If you play in a league, you need to know what you're getting into. If you're a 2.5 women in 6.5 mixed, you have a 4.0 male to play with, and you have to realize that you might be facing one on the other side of the court. If you don't like that idea, you might want to explore other options.
To be honest, I guess I do throttle my game back a little. But to have expectations that your opponent will do so is ridiculous.