A girl who's got a 0/10 character and 10/10 looks - what would you do?

tennis_pro

Bionic Poster
She's not dumb, just the type of character that I don't like (loud, swears a lot, drinks a lot) but she's absolutely stunning in looks (I mean she's literally perfect) and I think I have a shot (like a week ago we were celebrating my birthday and she was there, we both got super drunk and I was trying to kiss her and she was kinda yes, but no, but yes, but no, but yes....the usual stuff that girls do, she texted me the next day so I guess it's leaning towards yes). Also when she's not in this "aggressive" mode she's pretty cool. What would you do? I'm not that dumb to think that she'll change but I just can't stop thinking about her.
 

Tennis_Hands

Bionic Poster
For some what you describe would verge on the 10/10 character.

If you ask about when one thinks that the girl is absolutely unacceptable then you move on, no, but it looks like you describe that she also has other sides apart from the 0/10 mark, so it is more a question of you to make up your mind how you feel about her, because you clearly haven't.

 

NatF

Bionic Poster
Srsly though, if you're both up for something casual then there's no problem in that - she probably wouldn't appreciate that you're saying she's a 0/10 for personality though. So yeah as long as you're not leading her on, lying to a girl to get in her pants is low af. Conversely if you're in the stage of your life where you're looking for something steady and you really don't think this girls personality is right for you then maybe it's better to not complicate life with a fling.
 
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Chadalina

Guest
She's not dumb, just the type of character that I don't like (loud, swears a lot, drinks a lot) but she's absolutely stunning in looks (I mean she's literally perfect) and I think I have a shot (like a week ago we were celebrating my birthday and she was there, we both got super drunk and I was trying to kiss her and she was kinda yes, but no, but yes, but no, but yes....the usual stuff that girls do, she texted me the next day so I guess it's leaning towards yes). Also when she's not in this "aggressive" mode she's pretty cool. What would you do? I'm not that dumb to think that she'll change but I just can't stop thinking about her.
Her char is over confident but her spirit is loving. Its a shield, you found a nice one, just ruff on the edges :) I would kiss her again over and over, eventually breaking the frost. Some people have very strong resistance.

She is trying to be something she isnt to impress, take that as flattery. The downside is that she is conditioned with bad relationships and can never trust, always a user. Hottie though so gets away with it
 

junior74

G.O.A.T.
She's not dumb, just the type of character that I don't like (loud, swears a lot, drinks a lot) but she's absolutely stunning in looks (I mean she's literally perfect) and I think I have a shot (like a week ago we were celebrating my birthday and she was there, we both got super drunk and I was trying to kiss her and she was kinda yes, but no, but yes, but no, but yes....the usual stuff that girls do, she texted me the next day so I guess it's leaning towards yes). Also when she's not in this "aggressive" mode she's pretty cool. What would you do? I'm not that dumb to think that she'll change but I just can't stop thinking about her.
Asking for a friend?
 

tennis_pro

Bionic Poster
She sounds awful. Cannot stand loud women. Wait for a 10/10 personality and a 10/10 looks ladyperson to come along.
I mean not all the time but it happens. She's actually cool in a 1v1 conversation. We just hang out in clubs/pubs so that's why I can excuse her a little bit.
 
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MurraysMetalHip

Professional
They do exist. It’s just that very few of them are single. If a 0/10 and a 10/10 is single AND looking for sexytime, then there’s definitely a problem. My guess would be that she’s unbearable to be around for longer than 5 minutes (which may be long enough for some)

anyway... pics req’d or it didn’t happen...
 

Standaa

G.O.A.T.
I mean not all the time but it happens. She's actually cool in a 1v1 conversation.
wtf

0/10 girl would be some rotten spoilt human being who manipulates people to their own advantage, has no moral integrity, no compassion, no manners.. not some girl who’s occasionally loud, drinks (which I’m sure you do too) and is "actually cool in 1 on 1 convo"
 

Bartelby

Bionic Poster
You need to stop reading your women's magazines.
Her char is over confident but her spirit is loving. Its a shield, you found a nice one, just ruff on the edges :) I would kiss her again over and over, eventually breaking the frost. Some people have very strong resistance.

She is trying to be something she isnt to impress, take that as flattery. The downside is that she is conditioned with bad relationships and can never trust, always a user. Hottie though so gets away with it
 

Bartelby

Bionic Poster
It will be enjoyable at first, but then you'll be made to pay.

She's not dumb, just the type of character that I don't like (loud, swears a lot, drinks a lot) but she's absolutely stunning in looks (I mean she's literally perfect) and I think I have a shot (like a week ago we were celebrating my birthday and she was there, we both got super drunk and I was trying to kiss her and she was kinda yes, but no, but yes, but no, but yes....the usual stuff that girls do, she texted me the next day so I guess it's leaning towards yes). Also when she's not in this "aggressive" mode she's pretty cool. What would you do? I'm not that dumb to think that she'll change but I just can't stop thinking about her.
 

TagUrIt

Hall of Fame
I don’t think your asking for advice, because we ALL know what route you’re gonna take with this. Men are visual creatures, we get fooled by the pretty all the time. A beautiful woman can make us overlook the worst qualities in her. If you’re looking for fun then go for it, but if you’re trying to make a gf/wife out of this one, don’t kid yourself (or us) you already know the answer.
 

tennis_pro

Bionic Poster
I don’t think your asking for advice, because we ALL know what route you’re gonna take with this. Men are visual creatures, we get fooled by the pretty all the time. A beautiful woman can make us overlook the worst qualities in her. If you’re looking for fun then go for it, but if you’re trying to make a gf/wife out of this one, don’t kid yourself (or us) you already know the answer.
That hurt, man. Effing truth.
 

tennis_pro

Bionic Poster
Srsly though, if you're both up for something casual then there's no problem in that - she probably wouldn't appreciate that you're saying she's a 0/10 for personality though. So yeah as long as you're not leading her on, lying to a girl to get in her pants is low af. Conversely if you're in the stage of your life where you're looking for something steady and you really don't think this girls personality is right for you then maybe it's better to not complicate life with a fling.
Well not 0/10 I wanted to make the thread title interesting but the point was that she's just not my type character wise. And think about this - how absolutely gorgeous does she have to be for me to even think about this whole situation because Im not a guy who was ever interested in one night stands. I mean she's just got IT.
 

tennis_pro

Bionic Poster
wtf

0/10 girl would be some rotten spoilt human being who manipulates people to their own advantage, has no moral integrity, no compassion, no manners.. not some girl who’s occasionally loud, drinks (which I’m sure you do too) and is "actually cool in 1 on 1 convo"
Also we are going skiing together with a group of friends 2 weeks from now so I cant imagine that we wont talk about what happened last weekend.
 
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acintya

Legend
you must know she will NOT change.
generally people do not change.
ask yourself - can you live with this or not?

personally i would run away from this woman.
looks cant save a messed up character.
 

NatF

Bionic Poster
Well not 0/10 I wanted to make the thread title interesting but the point was that she's just not my type character wise. And think about this - how absolutely gorgeous does she have to be for me to even think about this whole situation because Im not a guy who was ever interested in one night stands. I mean she's just got IT.
 

Turbo-87

Legend
Just seems like a person with a flaw you don’t like. The title is a bit misleading. If she is different one on one, keep her away from the environments that trigger her. If that works, great. No one says you need to marry her, just have fun in the moment for however long it lasts. Don’t let this become a shoulda coulda woulda.
 
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King No1e

G.O.A.T.
She's not dumb, just the type of character that I don't like (loud, swears a lot, drinks a lot) but she's absolutely stunning in looks (I mean she's literally perfect) and I think I have a shot (like a week ago we were celebrating my birthday and she was there, we both got super drunk and I was trying to kiss her and she was kinda yes, but no, but yes, but no, but yes....the usual stuff that girls do, she texted me the next day so I guess it's leaning towards yes). Also when she's not in this "aggressive" mode she's pretty cool. What would you do? I'm not that dumb to think that she'll change but I just can't stop thinking about her.
 

Mr.Lob

Legend
And maybe the 0/10 will go up? Because until now I have only basically been with her in party conditions.
True. You can try to avoid the club and party scenes where she's annoying. How's her heart? She kick little dogs or is she kind to others.
 

tennis_pro

Bionic Poster
True. You can try to avoid the club and party scenes where she's annoying. How's her heart? She kick little dogs or is she kind to others.
She seems pretty cool. I'll definitely have a 1v1 talk with her 2 weeks from now, if I don't forget I'll tell you how it went.
 

Mike Bulgakov

G.O.A.T.
She's not dumb, just the type of character that I don't like (loud, swears a lot, drinks a lot) but she's absolutely stunning in looks (I mean she's literally perfect) and I think I have a shot (like a week ago we were celebrating my birthday and she was there, we both got super drunk and I was trying to kiss her and she was kinda yes, but no, but yes, but no, but yes....the usual stuff that girls do, she texted me the next day so I guess it's leaning towards yes). Also when she's not in this "aggressive" mode she's pretty cool. What would you do? I'm not that dumb to think that she'll change but I just can't stop thinking about her.
Giving her a 0/10 for character because she's loud, drinks and swears seems pretty shallow on your part. This criterium would rule out 99% of the women in Denmark. Is she smart, caring, poetic, sensitive, or adventurous? Are you looking for someone meek and submissive? How should she rate your character and looks?
 

Harry_Wild

G.O.A.T.
She's not dumb, just the type of character that I don't like (loud, swears a lot, drinks a lot) but she's absolutely stunning in looks (I mean she's literally perfect) and I think I have a shot (like a week ago we were celebrating my birthday and she was there, we both got super drunk and I was trying to kiss her and she was kinda yes, but no, but yes, but no, but yes....the usual stuff that girls do, she texted me the next day so I guess it's leaning towards yes). Also when she's not in this "aggressive" mode she's pretty cool. What would you do? I'm not that dumb to think that she'll change but I just can't stop thinking about her.
Ask her out on a date! Movies, dinner and drinks, nice room? You are getting too serious before even knowing her romantically! Start with the physical, then work to the more judgmental aspects. You are not going to ask her to married her before the 1st date, right! Make sure she does not have children! Otherwise, you will play child support on the kids.You might not like her after the 1st date too. Take it on a physical basis first since for guys, that what counts for a relationship to begin with. Then judge over time if she could be your best friend too!
 
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speedysteve

Legend
Most importantly, does she play tennis?
It's she better than you?

10/10 looker okay.. we've established she's not really 0/10 personality/character.
Tennis playing in appropriate gear would seal it, I think [emoji3]
 
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