A girl who's got a 0/10 character and 10/10 looks - what would you do?

tennis_pro said:
She's not dumb, just the type of character that I don't like (loud, swears a lot, drinks a lot) but she's absolutely stunning in looks (I mean she's literally perfect) and I think I have a shot (like a week ago we were celebrating my birthday and she was there, we both got super drunk and I was trying to kiss her and she was kinda yes, but no, but yes, but no, but yes....the usual stuff that girls do, she texted me the next day so I guess it's leaning towards yes). Also when she's not in this "aggressive" mode she's pretty cool. What would you do? I'm not that dumb to think that she'll change but I just can't stop thinking about her.
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Good luck Matteo. Do you have a picture?
 
ReeceSachs said:
Good luck Matteo. Do you have a picture?
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But, to answer your question, yes, if being truthful, I think 95% of hetros would date this 10.
A 10? Body? Legs? Face? Other female issues? I'd at least go in thinking I could change the "character" part. ;)
 
Mike Bulgakov said:
Giving her a 0/10 for character because she's loud, drinks and swears seems pretty shallow on your part. This criterium would rule out 99% of the women in Denmark. Is she smart, caring, poetic, sensitive, or adventurous? Are you looking for someone meek and submissive? How should she rate your character and looks?
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I said 0/10 to gather more views, she's not that bad, just not the type I'm usually into.

I'm average looking/average height, pretty fit, a good guy, well educated, very confident, I can make her laugh with ease.
 
Poisoned Slice said:
Dr. Lipschitz is unavailable for the foreseeable future and you have just caused my latest mudmare. There is no way back from here, you have entered my mud!
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My name is Louis Litt, and I'm representing Dr. Stanley Lipschitz but hold on a second . . . “I thought you were better than the rest of them.” “And you think you’re better than everyone.”o_O
 
Harry_Wild said:
You certain want to do drinks as the final step before asking her to visit her room if possible and not yours! It all about chemistry after that!
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I'm not gonna plan anything, maybe I'm overthinking this whole thing in the first place. Actually, I'm thinking about ignoring her for a little bit just to make her think "wtf? first he wants to kiss me and now he pretends I'm not here".

But as sure as hell I'm not gonna say no ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
 
tennis_pro said:
I'm not gonna plan anything, maybe I'm overthinking this whole thing in the first place. Actually, I'm thinking about ignoring her for a little bit just to make her think "wtf? first he wants to kiss me and now he pretends I'm not here".

But as sure as hell I'm not gonna say no ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
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Not a smart move! You do not want to play games with romance! Especially before a 1st date! Big mistake if you try the hard to get as a guy to a lady. It is one of the big turn offs for ladies! The ladies will think you are a kook or just playing with their feelings. Just ask her out!
 
Harry_Wild said:
Not a smart move! You do not want to play games with romance! Especially before a 1st date! Big mistake if you try the hard to get as a guy to a lady. It is one of the big turn offs for ladies! The ladies will think you are a kook or just playing with their feelings. Just ask her out!
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I actually think that's a huge turn on for girls, especially if they're hot which this girl certainly is. It just blows their mind.

She's not your typical 10/10 "holier than thou don't even think about asking me out" kind of girl which helps a lot but I can tell you from personal experience and from a couple of my friends experience who are really good at this and used to hook up with the 8s+ on a regular basis. Nothing turns the 8s/9s/10s on more than you pretending they're not there and you don't care about them. The guys drooling over them are last in line every time. I know it's like market psychology - you go against what you feel/believe you win. As crazy as it sounds it works.
 
tennis_pro said:
I actually think that's a huge turn on for girls, especially if they're hot which this girl certainly is. It just blows their mind.

She's not your typical 10/10 "holier than thou don't even think about asking me out" kind of girl which helps a lot but I can tell you from personal experience and from a couple of my friends experience who are really good at this and used to hook up with the 8s+ on a regular basis. Nothing turns the 8s/9s/10s on more than you pretending they're not there and you don't care about them. The guys drooling over them are last in line every time. I know it's like market psychology - you go against what you feel/believe you win. As crazy as it sounds it works.
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JUST ASK HER OUT! Stop making it a complicated situation!

P.S.: It is your life! I would get a second opinion and ask a lady friend what she thinks of your actions before doing "the play hard to get" act! LOL! o_O :oops:
 
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Harry_Wild said:
JUST ASK HER OUT! Stop making it a complicated situation!

P.S.: It is your life! I would get a second opinion and ask a lady friend what she thinks of your actions before doing "the play hard to get" act! LOL! o_O :oops:
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I will definitely talk with her, I will have to see her reaction as it goes
 
tennis_pro said:
Dude, EVERYTHING.
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Looks are only part of the story (although they are generally more important to guys than to girls). It depends on her personality when she's not in her "aggressive drunk" mode. If you find her normal personality likable, then go for it. If she's really 0/10 for you personality-wise, then I'd find someone else instead. Perhaps Berrettini.
 
I can't really imagine what a 10/10 would look like. But it definitely wouldn't be someone with a 0/10 personality. It would be a huge turnoff, making them no longer a 10/10. I hate this rating scale for appearance by the way. Its such a short and lazy way to describe appearance, when it's completely subjective anyway.
 
You both appear young enough to enjoy each other and move on.
 
Raul_SJ said:
This sounds like a case for Dr. Sureshs. Expert Sexologist.
Please have her consult him ASAP.
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That looks like a selfie. Wouldn't go to him. You also need an MD to be a psychiatrist in the US.

There's like, a 100% chance she'll turn psycho if you bang her and flee. No bang is worth that. Also, there's a 90% chance she has herpes. Not making up that number. 90% of the population has it.
 
UCSF2012 said:
That looks like a selfie. Wouldn't go to him. You also need an MD to be a psychiatrist in the US.

There's like, a 100% chance she'll turn psycho if you bang her and flee. No bang is worth that. Also, there's a 90% chance she has herpes. Not making up that number. 90% of the population has it.
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She's clean. I can ask her friends about the psycho thing cause it's possible.
 

I couldn't take it any longer Lord I was crazed
And when the feeling came upon me like a tidal wave
I started swearing to my god and on my mother's grave
That I would love you to the end of time
I swore, that I would love you to the end of time
So now I'm praying for the end of time
To hurry up and arrive
'Cause if I gotta spend another minute with you
I don't think that I can really survive
I'll never break my promise or forget my vow
But god only knows what I can do right now
I'm praying for the end of time
It's all that I can do (oh oh oh)
Praying for the end of time, so I can end my life with you
 
tennis_pro said:
She's not dumb, just the type of character that I don't like (loud, swears a lot, drinks a lot) but she's absolutely stunning in looks (I mean she's literally perfect) and I think I have a shot (like a week ago we were celebrating my birthday and she was there, we both got super drunk and I was trying to kiss her and she was kinda yes, but no, but yes, but no, but yes....the usual stuff that girls do, she texted me the next day so I guess it's leaning towards yes). Also when she's not in this "aggressive" mode she's pretty cool. What would you do? I'm not that dumb to think that she'll change but I just can't stop thinking about her.
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As a word of caution, it was your birthday, you were both "super drunk," and she wasn't mean about you trying to kiss her. It's possible that you are in her friend zone. Drunken kisses often mean nothing, and this didn't even go that far. The next day text may have just been a way to move past what she saw as an awkward moment, but that of course depends on the content of the text.
 
Mike Bulgakov said:
As a word of caution, it was your birthday, you were both "super drunk," and she wasn't mean about you trying to kiss her. It's possible that you are in her friend zone. Drunken kisses often mean nothing, and this didn't even go that far. The next day text may have just been a way to move past what she saw as an awkward moment, but that of course depends on the content of the text.
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Nah, were both from different cities and just have joint friends together. And Im never in any friendzones more than 5 seconds because Ive got balls to tell the girl that it's an insult to me and Id rather stop talking to a girl than be her friend. There's no such as girl friends in my head. I cut my losses instantly.
 
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Poisoned Slice said:
We can be loose with the out of 10 system. All in the eye of the beholder. Tony called Adriana a knockout 10 in the Sopranos. I dunno about that
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Well yeah but mostly the face is subjective. She's got everything - tall, long hair, great smile, perfect legs, two more arguments in front and one more argument in the back. Plus she often uses blood red lipstick and makes it really difficult for me to focus on anything else.
 
tennis_pro, don't get me wrong. I'm all for dating very beautiful women (and having them as girlfriends and marrying them). The key to attracting and dating (and marrying) beautiful women is to treat them as if they were just normally attractive. Be interested in who they are on the inside (guys often don't do that with beautiful women). Get to know them. Find out if you like them as a companion. Do your interests, personalities, and values match? Do you really accept her for the person she is? The red flag here is that you may not like her as a companion. If you already know you don't, then it really isn't fair to either of you.
 
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