So here I am again. I knew it had to happen sometime, but in my 10 to 12 years playing I finally got accused of cheating. Here is the scenario: After a rain delay of 5 days me and a pretty nice guy return to finish our match with me 1 set down and up 4 - 3 on serve. It gets to 5 - 5 and on game point he hits a cross court backhand that was clearly out...3 or so inches. I had mentioned to him because he sounded like he was griping if he saw it in. I told him I saw it at least 6 inches out (though the mark on the court looked more like 2 or 3). Regardless the ball was out. So I am up 6 to 5 and at 15 - 40 he serve a pretty nice flat serve at my right hip...I see it in and return it for a clean winner (just to let you know all my calls that night were either a split second out or a quick finger up). He made some quick remark; that I later found out ( didn't hear it at the time), was "so that other one was 6 inches out and that was in?" I didn't clearly hear his remark then, but I did hear during the change over that if that's how I was going to play it then that was fine...or something like that. Anyways after going down 0-30 in the 3rd set my serve I come back and win the next 4 points. He looks like he's getting irritated and after letting a ball go through, after being down 0 - 40 on hit serve, that he clearly would have gotten, I asked him "what was wrong". He brings up that he "hates playing with cheaters" and again brings up that one serve. Now that I am aware that that is the reason he's so upset I tell him I would gladly have given him a let if he had asked for one. He said that his *****ing should have been a sign and if I wasn't going to give him a let then I wasn't going to give him one at all. So basically after being 4 - 0 down he quits saying he doesnt play with cheaters, that he's going to let everyone know around town that I am a cheater, that I am going to get my ass kicked in the finals by some one he dominated, hence he was the better player. I really don't know what to think, it's really eating at me that someone is calling me a cheater. I really don't know how to take this. I hate people being mad at me and even though it's been 2 hours I am still troubled over what happened. So the main question is how do you hand those fast 1st serves that you think are in but your opponent feels are out and secondly how would you have handled what happened? Thanks!