Andy Murray opens up about 'embarrassing' thing he does

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Andy Murray has revealed what habit he finds most embarrassing about his tennis, and it may surprise many to discover that he actually cares about it.

For most sports stars, reacting badly to incidents and decisions is only natural and a part of how they are - but, it seems, for Murray it is a source of regret.

Murray, who was speaking as part of an interview with the Daily Mail's Oliver Holt, opened up about how he looks back on some of his more temperamental moments as a professional tennis player, conducting his business in the public glare.

He has, of course, received help from specialist sports psychiatrists and psychologists over the years, but it has not stopped him having moments to look back on and cringe.

"In the past, the things I would say on court, it’s embarrassing," says Murray. "I would never, ever speak to anybody like that. Ever.

"Here or in a restaurant or in my day-to-day life, I would never do it. If you listen to a lot of the things I say when I’m on the court, I’m incredibly self-critical.

"But I have learned how the emotional part of our brain takes over, that what we will tend to do is try to make excuses and blame other people and say that it isn’t your fault.

"But I know fine well when I come off the court after the match, the first person that I blame is myself.

"I don’t want to say anything wrong to anyone when I am on the court, but it happens. When someone starts questioning you and you are in a pressure situation, the natural thing to do is to start making excuses for why you are doing something wrong."

One thing that has upset Murray of late was when a sheet of paper with his motivational, private notes was leaked on social media.

"Mental health is a private matter," he said of the incident.

"I talk to the relevant people about it but I don’t want everyone to know what my notes are or what’s in... anyone who keeps a diary, well, it’s a bit embarrassing if someone goes and shows your diary to everyone."
 
again, i'm torn whenever i hear him talk.
really like the guy,
but for some reason can't root for him.
 
again, i'm torn whenever i hear him talk.
really like the guy,
but for some reason can't root for him.

Same. He's easily the nicest character of the top 4 (or 20), but I don't really like his game too much. Except when he gets creative with the slices and stuff - that's cool.

I supported him heavily until he won his first Slam + Wimbledon because I thought it would be pretty tragic for a guy to get to that many Slam finals and not win any, but since he's achieved that, I now support players whose play style I prefer better.
 
again, i'm torn whenever i hear him talk.
really like the guy,
but for some reason can't root for him.



Boring counterpuncher game
Acts like it's the worst day of his life every time he plays a match
Acts like any minor twinge of pain is a catastrophic career ending injury

Not sure if there is much to root for.

I think the only time I've truly seen him happy on court is when he hit Lendl with the ball.
 
Boring counterpuncher game
Acts like it's the worst day of his life every time he plays a match
Acts like any minor twinge of pain is a catastrophic career ending injury

Not sure if there is much to root for.

I think the only time I've truly seen him happy on court is when he hit Lendl with the ball.

i figure that all the stuff you mentioned, goes to his personal demons,
which i'm sure he also try to exterminate..
 
I understand.

With time I now understand...Why people don't like him, the game, his introverted attitude, his self hate on court.

I guess I liked him by chance after watching him play 10 years back.

Like the user above me said, the only time I saw him enjoy himself was when Lendl was there. He needs Lendl back!! I hope Ivan could commit himself.
 
"I don’t want to say anything wrong to anyone when I am on the court, but it happens. When someone starts questioning you and you are in a pressure situation, the natural thing to do is to start making excuses for why you are doing something wrong."

Actually, that's the natural thing for a child to do. Mature adults take responsibility for their mistakes and attempt to use that experience to move in different, more positive directions.

I am glad he's talking to a psychologist. Hopefully, they aren't letting him get away with this sort of blame shifting.
 
was going to start a thread, but seems like this should add to op... long one

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/sport/te...over-me.-She-listens-to-everything-I-say.html

“I had great success with Ivan Lendl. Was he a perfect coach? No. Was he a very good coach? Yeah. He had some very strong qualities and some things that weren’t so good.

i think that's part of Murray's problem.
i doesn't NEED a listener like Mauresmo.
even if it's comfortable.
what he needs is a tough father figure like Lendl (if he wants some more slams, that is).
 
was going to start a thread, but seems like this should add to op... long one

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/sport/te...over-me.-She-listens-to-everything-I-say.html

Good interview, good article. I was particularly interested in this quote:

"He accepts, though, that his second serve needs to improve."

Way to go Andy, but why has it taken you so long to accept that?

As for embarrassing things he does on court, as far as I'm concerned the only really embarrassing things he does is to allow himself to get blown away on occasion by players he has never previously lost to (Simon in Rotterdam) or teenage scrubs (Coric at Dubai). If he can cut that sort of thing out, he will be fine. I don't give two hoots about anything else so long as it helps him to focus!
 
“I had great success with Ivan Lendl. Was he a perfect coach? No. Was he a very good coach? Yeah. He had some very strong qualities and some things that weren’t so good.

i think that's part of Murray's problem.
he doesn't NEED a listener like Mauresmo.
even if it's comfortable.
what he needs is a tough father figure like Lendl (if he wants some more slams, that is).
Exactly what I think too.
 
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