I played/play soccer, basketball etc... and love it, and actually im a very unselfish assist type of guy.
And i like teamwork and theres alot of that there.
Its just something about tennis, i just really love singles, i cant explain, i like the freedom of having the whole court and creativity and problem solving and going 1 on 1 against someone and also like the point building and the amount of court you have to work with.
Meanwhile in doubles theres no dropshots, theres no open court, no outplaying someone, no getting someone off court etc... its just a different type of game and i like playing singles, and doubles i enjoy only for fun casually.
Hopefuly you understand me better now when it comes to this doubles thing.
hehe, i get it.
i specifically went to an solo sport like tennis because i sucked at all the other team sports (i played right field in youth baseball, right defender in soccer, kicked off rec basketball (for fighting with other kids that kept saying i sucked - they were probably right
), 3rd string midi in lax, etc...)
in tennis if i make a mistake, it's my fault, and i don't let anyone else down.
in tennis, i don't have to wait around for 10m before i get to touch the ball.
in tennis i don't have to ride the bench for have the match before i get in.
etc...
anywho, i started playing dubs, because when taking an audit of the poitns i was losing, it was due to things like:
* no placement on my returns
* earning the short ball, and missing a low "sitter"
* missing "gimmee" volleys or OH
* missing alot of approach shots
* not executing to do drop shots and dink shots (there are droppers and dinkers,.. just not usually from the baseline since i want to keep my opponents on the back court)
etc...
so i recall being a 4.0, and forcing myself to play dubs more, because i was losing to counter punchers that had more stamina... and i wasn't good enough to blast them off the court from the baseline... wasn't till i started playing dubs and forcing myself to s&v and c&c, that i got better at finishing points.