For a strong player for whom money is an issue (or maybe they are really cheap:twisted, and who basically won't join your team unless you pay for all of the costs- would you pony up? The court fees are pretty small in this case ($5/match).
I just can't pay $37 a match to play mixed but will play for free even though I feel stupid for someone else paying.
They offered to pay so I said ok.
I think its alright, but in the end it shows the comitment level of the dood you're paying for.
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$37 per match per player? Thats just ridiculous
I had a kid on my team last year who was a telemarketing guy, he made minimum wage and ate ramen for most of his meals. I paid his league fee, paid to get his frames restrung and bought him lunch a couple of times after matches. He wasn't even one of my best players, but I didn't have a problem helping him out.
$37 per match per player? Thats just ridiculous
For a strong player for whom money is an issue (or maybe they are really cheap:twisted, and who basically won't join your team unless you pay for all of the costs- would you pony up? The court fees are pretty small in this case ($5/match).
As captain, I've paid on behalf on team members with the expectation of being paid back, although there have been a couple of times where I was not paid back.
If a friend or teammember was in financial need, I would consider paying for them, whether I'm the captain or not. It would have nothing to do with how good or bad a player they are. And I don't think the captain should bear the burden of paying in this case - those teammembers who can afford it and are friends with the player in need should all chip in to help.
I would never as captain consider paying for someone who has not been on the team before and is not in need purely because they are a strong player and I want them on my team. That's like hiring a mercenary, and I don't think it's appropriate for recreational tennis.
pay for a ringer?
no
help someone out who is need?
likely.
Yeah.
I just cannot justify $37.00 a match for mixed doubles and 3 hour round trips. Its just insane.
But, I like the idea of being a paid (expenses only) ringer (its turns me on) and helping a good friend maintain a playoff spot.
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I can understand (but don't approve) paying someone's fee if you know you'll get it back. You lend it to them because they are a flake or something. I can see a parent paying his or her kids fee. I can see someone paying their girlfriend or boyfriends fee for mixed if they don't want to play partially because of money.
But to pay someone's fee because they are a great player and you need them to help you win??? I have two problems with that.
1: I don't respect people who want to buy their wins.
2: If they are so good that they are worth paying for, then they are playing (down) at the wrong level.
That's CHEATING, plain and simple, and should be reported to USTA, even if I do not think they would do anything..................
If I had to pay $37 for a match and drive 3 hour round trips just to play, I will quit tennis
How about a ringer that was in need?:wink:
^ But a "reversal of fortune" is just a nice way of saying a person doesn't know how to adjust their lifestyle knowing they have less financial means to enjoy a hobby. It shouldn't be incumbent upon others to support a lifestyle you can no longer afford to enjoy.
^ I'm not all that concerned about the legitimacy of paying for someone's fees. It's a free country so do what you want.
As a captain, I make it a point that I don't do this because I the people I've run into who asked me to cover for them fall into two categories:
1. The "poor" guy who can't manage his money: In this case, the man asked me to cover his fees because he said he was strapped for cash but makes it known to everyone that he likes to go barhopping and sing karaoke on weekends, easily blowing at least $150 every weekend. Yeah, everyone knows he's poor, but you can't help but to think a lot of his financial difficulties are self-inflicted and it's hard to be sympathetic.
2. The cheapskate: I invited a woman to join my mixed team because I wanted to carry one more woman due to a string of injuries and illnesses and she was joining towards the end of the season. She said she would only join if I paid for all the fees, even though she wouldn't be paying as much as the others since I was through with 70% of the season at that point but my team was playoff-bound. I also know for a fact that she is a stay-at-home mom and her husband makes enough for the family of five. If she's got it like that and is being petty about paying incidental fees, I just told her to get lost and managed to make it through the season.
I like to think that being generous is not a thing of the past, but as someone who is concerned about the bottom line, I can't help but notice the kind of people out there who will take advantage of someone's good will. Push comes to shove, tennis is just a hobby. If you can't afford it, nobody said you have to play.
^ I'm not all that concerned about the legitimacy of paying for someone's fees. It's a free country so do what you want.
As a captain, I make it a point that I don't do this because I the people I've run into who asked me to cover for them fall into two categories:
1. The "poor" guy who can't manage his money: In this case, the man asked me to cover his fees because he said he was strapped for cash but makes it known to everyone that he likes to go barhopping and sing karaoke on weekends, easily blowing at least $150 every weekend. Yeah, everyone knows he's poor, but you can't help but to think a lot of his financial difficulties are self-inflicted and it's hard to be sympathetic.
2. The cheapskate: I invited a woman to join my mixed team because I wanted to carry one more woman due to a string of injuries and illnesses and she was joining towards the end of the season. She said she would only join if I paid for all the fees, even though she wouldn't be paying as much as the others since I was through with 70% of the season at that point but my team was playoff-bound. I also know for a fact that she is a stay-at-home mom and her husband makes enough for the family of five. If she's got it like that and is being petty about paying incidental fees, I just told her to get lost and managed to make it through the season.
I like to think that being generous is not a thing of the past, but as someone who is concerned about the bottom line, I can't help but notice the kind of people out there who will take advantage of someone's good will. Push comes to shove, tennis is just a hobby. If you can't afford it, nobody said you have to play.