Confession Time

Zara

Legend
Definitely find what you love to do. That’s key. It’s true you may end up working more but you’d be focused on what you want to do and you’d set your own schedule. It could become more like a lifestyle. With computers and smart phones these days, telecommuting with your own business can be a very viable, profitable option. Maybe give it some thought. Good luck. I hope you find a nice balance.
I do have a balance. I have traded low for it. I could have done something much better and could have been more dedicated at work, but because I have a few hobbies, I had to do something where I wouldn't have to spend too much time on it as many do at work. But anyway, I just don't see myself doing anything client based (everything is client based these days). I don't like dealing with people on a business level. I don't even interact with real life friends on a daily basis. We meet up from time to time and that's all I can afford. That's why I have my PM closed because I don't have time for this nonsense and I am not sure what to chitchat on a daily basis and I am not sure how people do it or where they find all this time. I don't spend time playing (or even watching) games either because in my world that's a complete waste of time. Time, in short, is extremely precious to me and I really want to use it wisely doing the things I truly love doing but not wasting it.

Anyway, I think I am digressing. But because I don't enjoy dealing with people, it's very tricky for me to find that right business where I'll be creative without dealing with others and where it will generate more than sufficient funds to live very comfortably for the rest of my life.
 

Zara

Legend
Time is so precious to me that I can't even afford a boyfriend because I just don't have time for him.

Although there are times I think about one as I continue to confess, you see. Like when I travel, I do feel the need for it so that it's safer and a bit more pleasant. But I can't afford to fight or argue etc. that I see most couples do even when they travel together. So he'd be more like a bodyguard who also needs to be fairly knowledgeable like a tourist guide and carry my cameras etc.. Is that too selfish? :)
 

DSH

Legend
Time is so precious to me that I can't even afford a boyfriend because I just don't have time for him.

Although there are times I think about one as I continue to confess, you see. Like when I travel, I do feel the need for it so that it's safer and a bit more pleasant. But I can't afford to fight or argue etc. that I see most couples do even when they travel together. So he'd be more like a bodyguard who also needs to be fairly knowledgeable like a tourist guide and carry my cameras etc.. Is that too selfish? :)
Don't wait until it's too late, Zara.
If not...
:cry:

 

MurraysMetalHip

Professional
I confess that today I voted for a party that I would ordinarily not vote for in a billion years. Looking at the exit poles, it made sod all difference though. British pollyticks is broken beyond repair.
 

Zara

Legend
Do you like waterfalls? Got my estimate today and would need a 2nd slab todo my countertops with them. $2700 vs 4100 (two waterfalls)

What you think?

I like it very much. It’s very in these days. I’ve seen one with wood and another one with concrete or something like it. People are really going out of the boundaries with their design and I like it.

That’s not your kitchen though, now is it?
 
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Chadalina

Guest
I like it very much. It’s very in these days. I’ve seen one with wood and another one with concrete or something like it. People are really going out of the boundaries with their design and I like it.

That’s not your kitchen though, now is it?
No, i was showing what a waterfall was incase you/others didnt know.

I did pick out my slab today and decided on not doing the waterfalls. 50% of the total cost is too much for a cheapskate like me. Its not really the money, more so the % of the total cost.

Its a very clean looking countertop, ill take the dark color and paint my lower cabs the same color so it blends/flows

 

Zara

Legend
No, i was showing what a waterfall was incase you/others didnt know.

I did pick out my slab today and decided on not doing the waterfalls. 50% of the total cost is too much for a cheapskate like me. Its not really the money, more so the % of the total cost.

Its a very clean looking countertop, ill take the dark color and paint my lower cabs the same color so it blends/flows

I know of waterfalls, of course. Your slab looks quite nice actually. Better than mine.

What is the dark colour in the slab? dark grey? Your cabs then can be grey. You can even go with dark blue. And maybe have the upper cabs some warm colour? I like two tones cabs. That's also very in.

Here's one with wood. Very stylish and warms the place up. Love the dark cabinets with the subway tiles as the backsplash. Love the lightings. I find it to be very Victorian with a bit of modern touch to it.

 
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Chadalina

Guest
I know of waterfalls, of course. Your slab looks quite nice actually. Better than mine.

What is the dark colour in the slab? dark grey? Your cabs then can be grey. You can even go with dark blue. And maybe have the upper cabs some warm colour? I like two tones cabs. That's also very in.

Here's one with wood. Very stylish and warms the place up. Love the dark cabinets with the subway tiles as the backsplash. Love the lightings. I find it to be very Victorian with a bit of modern touch to it.

Its like a darkish grey, just little highlights.

I must not have shown you my kitchen lately, i ripped out my uppers and put in open shelving.

My ceiling is white, walls are darkish (like color in counter), counters will be light, lower cabs dark and the floor is white. So its like back and forth.

Im going to get a black shale quartz sink, it is very close to the color in the countertop as well.

 

Zara

Legend
Its like a darkish grey, just little highlights.

I must not have shown you my kitchen lately, i ripped out my uppers and put in open shelving.

My ceiling is white, walls are darkish (like color in counter), counters will be light, lower cabs dark and the floor is white. So its like back and forth.

Im going to get a black shale quartz sink, it is very close to the color in the countertop as well.

The thing about shelving is that you will need to always keep them clean otherwise dust will settle in no time but I love open shelving very much. I'll redesign my kitchen in a couple of years where I'll have at least 4 open shelves.

Floor is white as in what? White tiles? what do you have for the rest of the house then?

The dark sink looks good. Where do you plan to install it? On the island? Do you have an island?

I don't know if I told you before but I am digging the colour black so much lately. I am completely in love.
 
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Chadalina

Guest
The thing about shelving is that you will need to always keep them clean otherwise dust will settle in no time but I love open shelving very much. I'll redesign my kitchen in a couple of years where I'll have at least 4 open shelves.

Floor is white as in what? White tiles? what do you have for the rest of the house then?

The dark sink looks good. Where do you plan to install it? On the island? Do you have an island?

I don't know if I told you before but I am digging the colour black so much lately. I am completely in love.
I did my floors in concrete (entire house), Pacific Fog is the color. Hmm, guess we havent spoken in a bit.

Yep is a very good looking sink, little pricey but will last 20+ yrs. I also have a 10% off coupon (imagine that :p )
 

Zara

Legend
I did my floors in concrete (entire house), Pacific Fog is the color. Hmm, guess we havent spoken in a bit.

Yep is a very good looking sink, little pricey but will last 20+ yrs. I also have a 10% off coupon (imagine that :p )
Why not wood? But given Florida, concrete makes more sense.

I like this concrete waterfall. The kitchen looks too small though. Time for me to hit the bed.

 
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Chadalina

Guest
Why not wood? But given Florida, concrete makes more sense.

I like this concrete waterfall. The kitchen looks too small though. Time for me to hit the bed.

Good night.

Ive picked my slab, only debate was the waterfall.

Will look around for a new kitchen faucet later, then done :)
 
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Chadalina

Guest
Why not wood? But given Florida, concrete makes more sense.
Oops, thought you meant butcher block (wood) countertops. My dad had an interesting idea about the house.

We cant have basements because of our water table. That table stays at 72f, with a deep concrete foundation (poures (sp)) the floor should be in the ballpark.

Kind of like a poormans geothermal :) It kind of works and i like the look.
 

Zara

Legend
Oops, thought you meant butcher block (wood) countertops. My dad had an interesting idea about the house.

We cant have basements because of our water table. That table stays at 72f, with a deep concrete foundation (poures (sp)) the floor should be in the ballpark.

Kind of like a poormans geothermal :) It kind of works and i like the look.
I am not sure what that means. What is a water table?
 

tennishabit

Hall of Fame
My stuffed camel that I bought from Abu Dhabi. Is he cute or is he cute?

it could be a wonderful idea if they make stuffed buddah............unbreakable and unbeheadable, also all the watava religious figures can be made in the same way n squeezable w/ respective noises. easily alter their shapes/expressions to fit our watava agendas.................lololololololol:-D:-D:-D:-D:-D:-D:-D:-D:-D:-D:-D........................
 
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Chadalina

Guest
I am not sure what that means. What is a water table?
How deep you have to dig to reach water. A foot or two here and we have water, but keeps my slab cool in the summer and warm in the winter :)
 

Zara

Legend
How deep you have to dig to reach water. A foot or two here and we have water, but keeps my slab cool in the summer and warm in the winter :)
That makes sense if the intention is to keep the slab cool. Do people not have basements in general in Florida? I love basements.
 

Mike Bulgakov

G.O.A.T.
There are 4 stages with cults when they recruit and indoctrinate followers. People don’t start off choosing to join a destructive cult. It’s a process that is

1. Love Bombing- they attract/recruit by painting such a loving/pretty picture

2. Confession- they extract info about you, thereby extracting info that can later be used against a follower.

3. Brainwashing/Thought Reform/Indoctrination-slowly the former self is gone while the follower is brainwashed. Techniques include sleep deprivation, lack of food, endless chanting/praying, and excessive labor. Beliefs and behavior are shaped.

4. Exit Costs- leaving the cult becomes more and more difficult. Cognitive dissonance sets in. Leaving the cult appears to a terrifying proposition. Now the cult follower is trapped with no easy way out.

11 Warning Signs of Gaslighting
Gaslighting is a manipulation tactic used to gain power. And it works too well.
Posted Jan 22, 2017
Stephanie A. Sarkis Ph.D.

Gaslighting is a tactic in which a person or entity, in order to gain more power, makes a victim question their reality. It works much better than you may think. Anyone is susceptible to gaslighting, and it is a common technique of abusers, dictators, narcissists, and cult leaders. It is done slowly, so the victim doesn't realize how much they've been brainwashed. For example, in the movie Gaslight (1944), a man manipulates his wife to the point where she thinks she is losing her mind.

In my book Gaslighting: Recognize Manipulative and Emotionally Abusive People - and Break Free I detail how gaslighters typically use the following techniques:

1. They tell blatant lies.
You know it's an outright lie. Yet they are telling you this lie with a straight face. Why are they so blatant? Because they're setting up a precedent. Once they tell you a huge lie, you're not sure if anything they say is true. Keeping you unsteady and off-kilter is the goal.

2. They deny they ever said something, even though you have proof.
You know they said they would do something; you know you heard it. But they out and out deny it. It makes you start questioning your reality—maybe they never said that thing. And the more they do this, the more you question your reality and start accepting theirs.

3. They use what is near and dear to you as ammunition.
They know how important your kids are to you, and they know how important your identity is to you. So those may be one of the first things they attack. If you have kids, they tell you that you should not have had those children. They will tell you'd be a worthy person if only you didn't have a long list of negative traits. They attack the foundation of your being.

4. They wear you down over time.
This is one of the insidious things about gaslighting—it is done gradually, over time. A lie here, a lie there, a snide comment every so often...and then it starts ramping up. Even the brightest, most self-aware people can be sucked into gaslighting—it is that effective. It's the "frog in the frying pan" analogy: The heat is turned up slowly, so the frog never realizes what's happening to it.

5. Their actions do not match their words.
When dealing with a person or entity that gaslights, look at what they are doing rather than what they are saying. What they are saying means nothing; it is just talk. What they are doing is the issue.

6. They throw in positive reinforcement to confuse you.
This person or entity that is cutting you down, telling you that you don't have value, is now praising you for something you did. This adds an additional sense of uneasiness. You think, "Well maybe they aren't so bad." Yes, they are. This is a calculated attempt to keep you off-kilter—and again, to question your reality. Also look at what you were praised for; it is probably something that served the gaslighter.
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7. They know confusion weakens people.
Gaslighters know that people like having a sense of stability and normalcy. Their goal is to uproot this and make you constantly question everything. And humans' natural tendency is to look to the person or entity that will help you feel more stable—and that happens to be the gaslighter.

8. They project.
They are a drug user or a cheater, yet they are constantly accusing you of that. This is done so often that you start trying to defend yourself, and are distracted from the gaslighter's own behavior.

9. They try to align people against you.
Gaslighters are masters at manipulating and finding the people they know will stand by them no matter what—and they use these people against you. They will make comments such as, "This person knows that you're not right," or "This person knows you're useless too." Keep in mind it does not mean that these people actually said these things. A gaslighter is a constant liar. When the gaslighter uses this tactic it makes you feel like you don't know who to trust or turn to—and that leads you right back to the gaslighter. And that's exactly what they want: Isolation gives them more control.

10. They tell you or others that you are crazy.
This is one of the most effective tools of the gaslighter, because it's dismissive. The gaslighter knows if they question your sanity, people will not believe you when you tell them the gaslighter is abusive or out-of-control. It's a master technique.

11. They tell you everyone else is a liar.
By telling you that everyone else (your family, the media) is a liar, it again makes you question your reality. You've never known someone with the audacity to do this, so they must be telling the truth, right? No. It's a manipulation technique. It makes people turn to the gaslighter for the "correct" information—which isn't correct information at all.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/here-there-and-everywhere/201701/11-warning-signs-gaslighting

 

Zara

Legend
My sleep has become very light to the point I remember all the dreams I dream throughout the night. For example I dreamt a friend of mine and I are squeezed in a tiny bathroom and there are others waiting in line for us to finish. She then asks, is the next stall empty? I kind of look over and say, it seems that way. So we go to the next stall and she sits down and tells me to put on this wig on her. I put it on and notice that the wig has white hair at the front (bangs) and then it turns to pink followed by black and I keep wondering in my dreams, why is she going with this wig? It's too 80s, too big and hideous looking. And then I woke up.

I mean what kind of dream is that?
 

MurraysMetalHip

Professional
My sleep has become very light to the point I remember all the dreams I dream throughout the night. For example I dreamt a friend of mine and I are squeezed in a tiny bathroom and there are others waiting in line for us to finish. She then asks, is the next stall empty? I kind of look over and say, it seems that way. So we go to the next stall and she sits down and tells me to put on this wig on her. I put it on and notice that the wig has white hair at the front (bangs) and then it turns to pink followed by black and I keep wondering in my dreams, why is she going with this wig? It's too 80s, too big and hideous looking. And then I woke up.

I mean what kind of dream is that?
It’s a dgold dream. I’d get checked out.
 

ollinger

G.O.A.T.
or example I dreamt a friend of mine and I are squeezed in a tiny bathroom and there are others waiting in line for us to finish. She then asks, is the next stall empty? I kind of look over and say, it seems that way. So we go to the next stall and she sits down and tells me to put on this wig on her. I put it on and notice that the wig has white hair at the front (bangs) and then it turns to pink followed by black and I keep wondering in my dreams, why is she going with this wig? It's too 80s, too big and hideous looking. And then I woke up.
Birth and subsequent transformation. A bathroom stall is a vessel with a hole/drain/passageway at the bottom, i.e. a womb. The 3-color wig may be stages of life, pink of birth, black of adulthood, white of old age. Was dgold anywhere in the dream?
 
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Chadalina

Guest
That makes sense if the intention is to keep the slab cool. Do people not have basements in general in Florida? I love basements.
Ive never seen one, couldnt have windows. Maybe a cellar or something, havent really looked.
 

Zara

Legend
Nasty weather outside. I went out to do some groceries and a few other chores but had to come back after the groceries. Not only I have a semi-flat tire but also, I have yet to change my tires to winter tires.
Birth and subsequent transformation. A bathroom stall is a vessel with a hole/drain/passageway at the bottom, i.e. a womb. The 3-color wig may be stages of life, pink of birth, black of adulthood, white of old age. Was dgold anywhere in the dream?
Lmho! That's actually not too bad. Calling dream interpreter @Tennease to see if he can shed some lights on it.

But to answer your question, no, dgold was nowhere to be found. I have yet to dream that bugger.

I wonder however if the dream had anything to do with the movie I watched last night "The Danish Girl" where the protagonist wore a number of wigs and I was wondering about those during the movie.
 

Mike Bulgakov

G.O.A.T.
My sleep has become very light to the point I remember all the dreams I dream throughout the night. For example I dreamt a friend of mine and I are squeezed in a tiny bathroom and there are others waiting in line for us to finish. She then asks, is the next stall empty? I kind of look over and say, it seems that way. So we go to the next stall and she sits down and tells me to put on this wig on her. I put it on and notice that the wig has white hair at the front (bangs) and then it turns to pink followed by black and I keep wondering in my dreams, why is she going with this wig? It's too 80s, too big and hideous looking. And then I woke up.

I mean what kind of dream is that?
You needed to pee, but were in a slumbering twilight zone and didn't want to get up, which was represented by the line at the bathroom stall. The sensation triggered sexual arousal and thoughts of your friend, who joined you in the stall. The wig represented a merkin, which you were recently shopping for, and you were undecided about the best color.

No, I am not serious.
 

Zara

Legend
You needed to pee, but were in a slumbering twilight zone and didn't want to get up, which was represented by the line at the bathroom stall. The sensation triggered sexual arousal and thoughts of your friend, who joined you in the stall. The wig represented a merkin, which you were recently shopping for, and you were undecided about the best color.

No, I am not serious.
I am enjoying all these interpretations. It was a she btw and I am not gay. Although a girlfriend of mine recently asked me to marry her. Maybe it was a combination of things.

Anyway, I won't mind a sexual encounter of the third kind in any stall with the love of my life @Lleytonstation.
 
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That movie you watched definitely influenced your dream Zara.

“Have you ever noticed that when you have been acutely focused on or mentally pre-occupied with a specific person, place or object, you tend to dream of it? This is the result of your unconscious mind continuing to process the last thing you thought of before you fell asleep. Thus, by simply thinking hard of what you wish to appear in your dreams, you can pick and choose the subjects of your choice. In fact, this is an exercise used by lucid dreamers, combined with alarms and journals, and it has been found to work quite often.”



https://psych2go.net/the-last-things-you-do-or-think-about-before-you-fall-asleep-can-influence-what-you-dream-about/
 

Mike Bulgakov

G.O.A.T.
That movie you watched definitely influenced your dream Zara.

“Have you ever noticed that when you have been acutely focused on or mentally pre-occupied with a specific person, place or object, you tend to dream of it? This is the result of your unconscious mind continuing to process the last thing you thought of before you fell asleep. Thus, by simply thinking hard of what you wish to appear in your dreams, you can pick and choose the subjects of your choice. In fact, this is an exercise used by lucid dreamers, combined with alarms and journals, and it has been found to work quite often.”



https://psych2go.net/the-last-things-you-do-or-think-about-before-you-fall-asleep-can-influence-what-you-dream-about/
Interpreting Zara's dreams is fun. It could be a thread. Any more dreams, @Zara?

Sherlock Cat, Dream Detective
 
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Zara

Legend
That movie you watched definitely influenced your dream Zara.

“Have you ever noticed that when you have been acutely focused on or mentally pre-occupied with a specific person, place or object, you tend to dream of it? This is the result of your unconscious mind continuing to process the last thing you thought of before you fell asleep. Thus, by simply thinking hard of what you wish to appear in your dreams, you can pick and choose the subjects of your choice. In fact, this is an exercise used by lucid dreamers, combined with alarms and journals, and it has been found to work quite often.”

https://psych2go.net/the-last-things-you-do-or-think-about-before-you-fall-asleep-can-influence-what-you-dream-about/
I'd say so. I was really taken by the movie as the sets were stunning with beautiful colours and both characters wore nice wigs. Especially the wig on the left that Alicia's wearing. The movie was visually stunning. It was a pure work of art.

This doesn't explain though why the encounter in my dream happened in a congested and tiny bathroom where there's a line waiting just outside? I mean I watched something really beautiful but somehow my mind translated that into ... that?










Beautiful victorian colours!
 

Tennease

Legend
Nasty weather outside. I went out to do some groceries and a few other chores but had to come back after the groceries. Not only I have a semi-flat tire but also, I have yet to change my tires to winter tires.


Lmho! That's actually not too bad. Calling dream interpreter @Tennease to see if he can shed some lights on it.

But to answer your question, no, dgold was nowhere to be found. I have yet to dream that bugger.

I wonder however if the dream had anything to do with the movie I watched last night "The Danish Girl" where the protagonist wore a number of wigs and I was wondering about those during the movie.
Dreams About Bathrooms – Meaning and Interpretation

Bathrooms symbolize the intimate, but unpleasant aspects of our lives. They are symbols for waste elimination, cleansing and relieving. Dreams about bathrooms are usually related to our instincts and urges.

If you dreamed about a bathroom, maybe this dream is a sign you need to relieve yourself of some burdens.


Bathrooms are a sign of renewal and purification and this dream might be revealing the need to have an emotional or psychological cleansing.


Dreams about bathrooms might indicate being in a messy and dirty situation, which stresses you out and you need to deal with it.


Usually dreams about public bathrooms refer to your professional or social life, and your public relationships and bathrooms inside a house, are usually related to your home life and private relationships.


The details of a dream with bathroom, like not having toilet paper or a dirty bathroom, etc. are very important for determining the meaning of the dream.

Dreams About Bathrooms – Meaning and Interpretation

Dreaming about being in a bathroom. If you dreamed about being in a bathroom, such a dream might represent bad luck, or some unfortunate event or a situation you might find yourself in soon.

Dreaming about using a bathroom. If you dreamed about using a bathroom, such a dream might signify the need to change some beliefs or your way of thinking, because you are currently going through a process of emotional and spiritual growth.


Dreaming about being in a public bathroom. If you dreamed about being in a public bathroom, full of people, such a dream might signify being frustrated, due to lack of privacy. Maybe you always tend to put others ahead of your own needs, and you don’t have enough space of your own.


Sometimes this dream signifies difficulties in letting go of some emotions.


Dreaming about being in a bathroom of the opposite sex. If you were using the bathroom of the opposite sex in your dream, such a dream might indicate exceeding your boundaries in some situations.

Dreaming about searching for a bathroom. If you dreamed about looking for a bathroom, such a dream might signify not having enough money or having some financial issues.


Dreaming about not being able to find a bathroom. If you couldn’t find a bathroom in your dream, such a dream might signify having difficulties expressing or releasing some emotions. Maybe you are holding back your feelings about someone or something.

Sometimes this dream indicates a real physical need to use the bathroom.

Dreaming about needing to pay to use the bathroom. If you dreamed about needing to pay to use the bathroom, such a dream might indicate you avoid burdening others with your emotions. If that is the case, maybe you should consider asking professional help to address your emotions.

If you didn’t pay, or didn’t have money to pay for the bathroom, maybe the dream indicates you avoid seeking help.

This dream might also signify your feelings of unworthiness.


Dreaming about a bathroom without doors or stalls. If you dreamed about needing to use a bathroom, which didn’t have doors or stalls, such a dream might signify felling you don’t have enough privacy or time for yourself.


If you couldn’t use this bathroom in front of everyone who was inside, maybe this dream indicates you are afraid to tell others how you feel.

If you didn’t have a problem using the bathroom in front of others, the dream might indicate not being worried about other people’s opinions about you.

Dreaming about a bathroom without soap or water. If you dreamed about being in a bathroom, where there wasn’t any soap or water, such a dream might signify your need for more resources and support.

Maybe it indicates having some more negativity to release.


Dreaming about a dirty bathroom. If you saw a dirty bathroom in your dream, such a dream might signify repressing a lot of negative emotions.


It might also indicate being in contact with a lot of negative and toxic people, and being surrounded by negative energy.

Dreaming about an old bathroom. If you saw or used an old looking bathroom in your dream, such a dream might signify bad things and difficulties in the near future. Maybe you will encounter some obstacles while achieving your goals.

Dreaming about a fancy bathroom. If you dreamed about a beautiful and fancy looking bathroom, such a dream might indicate having some unrealistic expectations and desires. Maybe you want something beyond your reach or capabilities.

In some cases this dream might indicate success in achieving these unrealistic goals, with the help of your strong will and persistence.

Dreaming about reading in a bathroom. If you dreamed about reading in a bathroom, such a dream is usually a good sign, indicating the stress from your life will fortunately soon be reduced. Maybe you will finally have a chance to take some time off, to relax.

Dreaming about an overflowing bathroom. If you saw a bathroom filled with excrements in your dream, such a dream is a very good sign and usually indicates good luck. It might indicate having success in all of your current endeavors. This dream is a sign of having no worries in the near future.

Dreaming about refurbishing a bathroom. If you dreamed about refurbishing a bathroom, such a dream is a good sign, and might signify gaining money and material possessions in the near future. You will be financially secured and calm in regards to your financial situation.

Maybe you will gain some money, due to some lucky circumstances, or they might come to you through your hard work.
 

Tennease

Legend
Interpretation of a dream about wig

The Autumn dreambook considers a dream about wearing a wig a sign of image change. Do not be afraid to take risks and change your appearance and style of clothing drastically. It is likely that such changes will have a positive impact on your whole life.

Women’s dreambook speaks of unpleasant changes if you were trying on a wig in a dream. Dreambook warns of difficulties that may arise in the relationship with the people with whom you communicate all day. Dreams promise anxiety and trials.

Gypsy’s dreambook interprets a dream of trying on artificial hair in a different way. They believe that wearing a wig in a dream is a sign that there will be confusion in important matters in reality. The main thing is not to panic when it happens. Only cold pragmatic calculation will help to get out of the difficulties.

Trying on a wig with long hair predicts some trip. Modern dreambook promises that the voyage will be, though difficult, but at the same time extraordinarily fascinating. The dream shows that it will be possible to make many new acquaintances and even find faithful friends.

Trying on a wig in a dream can be a sign that you have problems getting sexual pleasure. To try a wig of non-standard length is a symbol of bold sexual experiments. Dr. Freud is convinced that you will be able to overcome the embarrassment and complexes and completely surrender to passion in real life.

Putting on different wigs in a dream is a symbol of deceit. Especially if there were a lot of them and all were different. But it will be you the cunning deceiver. The Wanderer’s dreambook warns that the payback can be very serious. You should apologize to the person you offended till it is not too late.

To dream of red curls means gossip and intrigue. If you were wearing a red-haired wig, you will begin to think evil about someone. If another person was seen in such wig, this means he will be spreading gossip and starting conflicts.

If you dreamed of a black wig, there may be problems with your health. If the chignon that you saw in a dream was white, good luck will follow you in all matters.

Wearing a wig with long hair in a dream means performing bold actions. Universal dreambook advises not to be afraid to take risks and be misunderstood by others.

To see straw on your head is a symbol of condemnation and misunderstanding of others. Especially if it is much disheveled in your dream. To walk along the streets in such a way in a dream means to get in an awkward situation in reality. The incident will cause a great emotional turmoil.

Combing a wig in a dream is a sign of worries. Perhaps you will suffer, trying to understand what decision you should take. Remember that it is internal fear that is a common cause of making mistakes.

To wear a female wig for a man in a dream means to be ridiculed and to experience shame. Another interpretation of a similar plot is a possible betrayal. You can be betrayed by those people from whom you do not expect it at all. Especially, if you dream of a very beautiful and spectacular toupee.
 

Mike Bulgakov

G.O.A.T.
I wonder however if the dream had anything to do with the movie I watched last night "The Danish Girl" where the protagonist wore a number of wigs and I was wondering about those during the movie.
Confession: I don't remember ever dreaming about "The Danish Girl" actress Alicia Vikander. I also can't remember dreaming that I could fly.

Alicia Vikander: I dream of being able to fly

Alicia Vikander dreams of being able to fly.

Asked which super power she'd most like to have, Alicia shared: "I've always wanted the ability to fly! And I'm very lucky, because in many dreams I have, if I can remember them, that is the one superpower I always get to have."
https://www.toronto.com/whatson-story/8330374-alicia-vikander-i-dream-of-being-able-to-fly/


That movie you watched definitely influenced your dream Zara.

“Have you ever noticed that when you have been acutely focused on or mentally pre-occupied with a specific person, place or object, you tend to dream of it? This is the result of your unconscious mind continuing to process the last thing you thought of before you fell asleep. Thus, by simply thinking hard of what you wish to appear in your dreams, you can pick and choose the subjects of your choice. In fact, this is an exercise used by lucid dreamers, combined with alarms and journals, and it has been found to work quite often.”



https://psych2go.net/the-last-things-you-do-or-think-about-before-you-fall-asleep-can-influence-what-you-dream-about/
I think Borg is onto something here regarding the wigs. Wigs are a persistent visual in the film.

This doesn't explain though why the encounter in my dream happened in a congested and tiny bathroom where there's a line waiting just outside? I mean I watched something really beautiful but somehow my mind translated that into ... that?
What about the full bladder and not wanting to get up theory?
 
Confession: I don't remember ever dreaming about "The Danish Girl" actress Alicia Vikander. I also can't remember dreaming that I could fly.

Alicia Vikander: I dream of being able to fly

Alicia Vikander dreams of being able to fly.

Asked which super power she'd most like to have, Alicia shared: "I've always wanted the ability to fly! And I'm very lucky, because in many dreams I have, if I can remember them, that is the one superpower I always get to have."
https://www.toronto.com/whatson-story/8330374-alicia-vikander-i-dream-of-being-able-to-fly/



I think Borg is onto something here regarding the wigs. Wigs are a persistent visual in the film.
Alicia Vikander! Thanks for putting a name to the face of that great actress with your posts.
 

Zara

Legend
Interpreting Zara's dreams is fun. It could be a thread. Any more dreams, @Zara?

Sherlock Cat, Dream Detective
Yes, I shall share a dream every day.

Interpretation of a dream about wig

The Autumn dreambook considers a dream about wearing a wig a sign of image change. Do not be afraid to take risks and change your appearance and style of clothing drastically. It is likely that such changes will have a positive impact on your whole life.

Women’s dreambook speaks of unpleasant changes if you were trying on a wig in a dream. Dreambook warns of difficulties that may arise in the relationship with the people with whom you communicate all day. Dreams promise anxiety and trials.

Gypsy’s dreambook interprets a dream of trying on artificial hair in a different way. They believe that wearing a wig in a dream is a sign that there will be confusion in important matters in reality. The main thing is not to panic when it happens. Only cold pragmatic calculation will help to get out of the difficulties.

Trying on a wig with long hair predicts some trip. Modern dreambook promises that the voyage will be, though difficult, but at the same time extraordinarily fascinating. The dream shows that it will be possible to make many new acquaintances and even find faithful friends.

Trying on a wig in a dream can be a sign that you have problems getting sexual pleasure. To try a wig of non-standard length is a symbol of bold sexual experiments. Dr. Freud is convinced that you will be able to overcome the embarrassment and complexes and completely surrender to passion in real life.

Putting on different wigs in a dream is a symbol of deceit. Especially if there were a lot of them and all were different. But it will be you the cunning deceiver. The Wanderer’s dreambook warns that the payback can be very serious. You should apologize to the person you offended till it is not too late.

To dream of red curls means gossip and intrigue. If you were wearing a red-haired wig, you will begin to think evil about someone. If another person was seen in such wig, this means he will be spreading gossip and starting conflicts.

If you dreamed of a black wig, there may be problems with your health. If the chignon that you saw in a dream was white, good luck will follow you in all matters.

Wearing a wig with long hair in a dream means performing bold actions. Universal dreambook advises not to be afraid to take risks and be misunderstood by others.

To see straw on your head is a symbol of condemnation and misunderstanding of others. Especially if it is much disheveled in your dream. To walk along the streets in such a way in a dream means to get in an awkward situation in reality. The incident will cause a great emotional turmoil.

Combing a wig in a dream is a sign of worries. Perhaps you will suffer, trying to understand what decision you should take. Remember that it is internal fear that is a common cause of making mistakes.

To wear a female wig for a man in a dream means to be ridiculed and to experience shame. Another interpretation of a similar plot is a possible betrayal. You can be betrayed by those people from whom you do not expect it at all. Especially, if you dream of a very beautiful and spectacular toupee.
The wig thing came close as it makes sense wanting to change the image but mind you, it wasn’t I who wanted wear the wig.

None of the bathroom interpretations came even close to what I dreamt as there was no intention of us using the bathroom.
 

Zara

Legend
What about the full bladder and not wanting to get up theory?
Yes, but I never hold back even when I sleep deep, if there’s an urge to go to the bathroom, I’d go and here, I already admitted that my sleep has become very light.

Also, in my dream, I really didn’t use it. I should admit though that I have washrooms phobia; as in, I really like my bathroom really clean so using public restroom is like a nightmare to me. For that reason, from time to time, I dream bathrooms that are either tiny or not very clean. Lmho
 

Zara

Legend
Btw, I am listening to ‘What is nothing? Why do we exist at all if there’s nothing and what really happened 14 billion years ago?’

Given that that’s the last thing I am doing just before going to bed, I want to see what I dream tonight.

I’ll be really pissed if I see I am cleaning someone’s bathroom.
 
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