I considered myself I good 4.0 player. I just played a match against a 4.5 player who is middle to low end of 4.5. This is based on his 4.5 tournament record, he wins 1/3 of his matches.
I lost to him 6-3, 6-2. I didn't get blown off the court. no aces and only a few winners. He was just consistent and hit the ball deep. Rally points which goes 10+, which I usually win against other 4.0 players, I lost to him. So rec tennis can be summarized by one key aspect. It's not about the 120 MPH serve or the awesome looking modern forehand. It's about getting the ball over the net one more time than your opponent.
I lost to him 6-3, 6-2. I didn't get blown off the court. no aces and only a few winners. He was just consistent and hit the ball deep. Rally points which goes 10+, which I usually win against other 4.0 players, I lost to him. So rec tennis can be summarized by one key aspect. It's not about the 120 MPH serve or the awesome looking modern forehand. It's about getting the ball over the net one more time than your opponent.