Hi everyone, i am kind of an increasingly obsessed individual. If i love something i like to be the best at it. Tennis is something i love watching but when it comes to playing the game i dont have the right attitude. i experience such high degree of emotions. Its terrible. When i lose a match its like i hit rock bottom. i sink sink and sink into depression. and i carry that burden the next day i get ready for a match. although i know the fault lies with me not improving my game or technique and not necessarily how my opponent is playing. but i would really like to know how you all cope with loses. i only play recreational tennis at a local club but every match i play is something special for me. something i would like to win and feel good about myself.