Wow I wouldn't know where to begin answering this, but let me see...
The sum of his behavior in the public eye is what my assessment is based on; whether the causes and root are pathological in nature or if he's incapable of changing his behavior is not something I or anyone can say. It would seem some of it is definitely deeply ingrained.
As for scapegoating, I wouldn't even know what that would be about. How exactly is he getting scapegoated - in the sense of the word where someone is unreasonably made to bear the sins of another? We are in fact talking about his own actions and the resulting public reaction to them.
In fact, it seems to me you are one ascribing to him a kind of 'victim-of-his-circumstance' helplessness that completely ignores his ability to exercise any free will over his situation.
Wow, way to go equating an entire people's systemic struggle with prejudice with the inability of a successful athlete (who is otherwise able to exercise precise control over his life choices in advancing his career goals) to self-regulate behavior damaging to his public persona.
What part of the standards applied to him are 'de jure' as you seem imply and simply not compatible with the natural law of fairness (as in the opposite of hypocrisy), coherence and universality? (humility, controlling negative emotions, caring for the well-being of others and not just self etc)
Yet again you go into a hypothetical and a strawman of me as a non-good-faith actor as a justification for why Novak should not be held accountable on the basis of his verifiable actions.
If you knew me to justify similar behavior in a player I prefer, yet call out Novak, this accusation would still make sense, but without any basis in reality, this is simply an ad-hominem.
You should apply the same standard to yourself in that case and remove your opinion from consideration because you're not an unbiased observer either and if you can accuse me of 'seeking to demonize' Novak, I too can say 'you seek to justify bad behavior' because of your fanhood.
Would you condone it in another player? say Kyrgios, or Federer?
Of course, I sympathize with the sentiment; I think it's unfortunate that he had to play in the popularity penumbra of Federer and Nadal. And credit to you for noting that his reaction to it is unjustifiable (to a debatable degree for you).
Yet again, one could make similar cases for Fed and Nadal too in ways they have suffered for no fault of theirs - is it Fed's fault he is 5 years older than these other two guys and that such all-time greats crossed paths at a very narrow yet overlapping time period in the sports history? He gets constantly berated here by Djokovic fans for this unfortunate fact. I wouldn't go as far as you do with conjecture but wonder about the possibility of greater parity in their H2H records had they been contemporaries.
But does any of it exempt these players for responsibility for their behavior no matter their frustrations? of course not!
Hey, thanks for your reply.
I don't really have time to respond in a similar or comparable way, so I'll just say a few things and then hopefully we can end the conversation, because I have a feeling we just have different interpretations and probably won't ever agree (which is ok), so there's really no point in prolonging it any further.
My assessment is also based on his behaviour, but I try to put emphasis on both the circumstances and his own, idiosyncratic reaction to them (which, to me, is an assessment that goes beyond judgement and into the sphere of a more objective understanding), rather than privileging one of these domains to the exclusion of the other. Solely ascribing victimhood of circumstances to Djokovic is exactly what I am not doing, although I had to emphasise that side of my argument in response to your dismissal of any contextual/historical framework. I would have emphasised the notion of victimhood as a victim complex, which he abundantly uses to both his advantage and detriment, if you were arguing from the standpoint of pure context and no agency (which is what you ascribed to me).
Analogy is, of course, not saying two things are the same, but that you can find comparable elements within two different contexts. The example of slavery, though admittedly in poor taste, was used to demonstrate it is not advisable to see effects as causes, or to see present-day phenomena detached both from their history and their dynamic relationship with other phenomena. I'm sure being Federer and being Nadal presents specific kinds of challenges, but not challenges
of the same kind as being in Djokovic's skin.
I tried to put forth an explanation that may (or may not, but at least I tried) withstand the test of time, as context changes and so does the status quo. If in the future this trio came to be reinterpreted, and the majority opinion became "Djokovic is the GOAT and the hero who broke the duopoly when most people were against him", with people looking at the exact same behaviours you see today but interpreting them from a radically opposite point of view ("it is what it is, can't you see?"), my current interpretation would still hold as a more complex and balanced assessment. It's not just about "what we can see" that is so obvious to us, otherwise Kyrgios wouldn't split tennis fandom down the middle, or Nadal wouldn't be seen, simultaneously, as extremely talented and/or just a grinder (why not both, I ask both fans and detractors?).
I'm not saying you're a bad faith actor, I'm just saying you're playing the fandom game, which is perfectly legitimate in a tennis forum. A Djokovic fan would point out his ability to show "humility, control negative emotions, care for the well-being of others and not just self, etc" and the moments Federer and Nadal were shown lacking in these categories (you can find just about anything, they're human after all). I don't think there's anything especially humble/generous/sportsmanlike about Federer or Nadal, as I don't think there's anything particularly arrogant/angry/unsportsmanlike about Djokovic; nothing (outside of a specific historical context) that would objectively warrant Federer to win the Edberg sportsmanship award more times than Edberg himself (when you never saw Edberg angry or showing unsportsmanlike conduct to any degree ever, whereas you can easily point to angry and borderline unsportsmanlike behaviour in Federer), or that would warrant Nadal to be seen as the humblest player to ever grace a court. All these characteristics are exaggerated and an effect of their achievements against one another at the top of the game.
And of course, I never said Djokovic shouldn't be held accountable. I just don't think these things make him especially villainous, in the same way I'm sceptical about Federer's or Nadal's inherent virtue. You mistake my position of "these are normal people under extraordinary circumstances, caught inside a narrative that extends beyond themselves" for Djokovic favouritism. Under my interpretation, Djokovic is neither the hero he is for a smaller (compared to the other two) fanbase nor the villain he is for a considerable amount of people, and the same applies to the other two, even though the supporters/detractors ratio is reversed.
I'm sceptical about the exaggerated representation of all top players, whether it's for good or for bad: there's nothing to suggest, except if you eliminate any contextual-historical analysis and only look at the virtues of X and Y (Federer and Nadal) and compare them to the flaws of Z (Djokovic), that they're anything but average people whose good actions and mistakes have been interpreted through the lens of the halcyon days of duopoly, their specific arrival to the game, the way they present themselves,
but also common stereotypes about nationality, temperament, etc.
I won't discuss head-to-head or their overlapping careers, as I don't see how it connects to this subject. All I wanted to show is how the mainstream story that is told about Djokovic and his relationship to the other members of the "big three" seems to be internalised by Djokovic himself, in such a way that it is both his strength and his weakness. I think that was made clear in my first (short) intervention where I described the two dynamics (one external, the other internal). Head-to-heads and who should be considered best or worst, I'll leave that to specialised fan wars.