Hi all,
I always have this mental problem in playing matches where out of fear if losing I never can play relaxed and free and up to my potential.
With the people I play , I manage to get a win most of the time but that's not because I manage to hit winners and put forward my best game , it's because they usually make more mistakes , though I do start playing a bit more relaxed when I have a huge lead.
This makes me feel not great when I win and I feel devastated for days when I lose.
This makes me believe that I just need to lose so much that I am no longer bothered by it , maybe then I can play free.
Did anyone else go through this problem and did you have to lose a lot before you were able to relax mentally to okay your best ?
I always have this mental problem in playing matches where out of fear if losing I never can play relaxed and free and up to my potential.
With the people I play , I manage to get a win most of the time but that's not because I manage to hit winners and put forward my best game , it's because they usually make more mistakes , though I do start playing a bit more relaxed when I have a huge lead.
This makes me feel not great when I win and I feel devastated for days when I lose.
This makes me believe that I just need to lose so much that I am no longer bothered by it , maybe then I can play free.
Did anyone else go through this problem and did you have to lose a lot before you were able to relax mentally to okay your best ?