Perfectly reasonable. And way different connotation than "I certainly don't need anyone in this place to help me with SS, FH or whatever"You have to expand your perspective a bit here. Even if I run into many much better players, what good does it do for me if I don't have the time, the energy, the incentive to learn all the advance stuff?
It depends on personality and circumstance. I'm within hailing distance of 5.0 but will have to bust my butt to reach it and if I do, my playing opportunities will diminish dramatically and my tennis circle will necessarily get a lot smaller. Yet, I'm still trying because that's my nature.Happiness is going with the flow. Being somewhere between 3.5 and 4.0 seems like the sweetest spot. It's more effortless for me to keep up that level though I need to hit the gym for better workout.