my question was purposely open-ended.
All of the examples you cited (except the last one which is not sportsmanship but simply following the rules) are in fact nice gestures. the thing is that's all they are, gestures that don't 'cost' you anything. they have no bearing on the result whatsoever. They make one 'look' good, but they are so 'easy'.
My point being that the above is all nice and good - but I think sportsmanship is a bit more than that. And I think that is the essence of this thread, the OP did not want to go 'above and beyond' and show sportsmanship, he just took what was his regardless. that's cool, maybe he is not a bad person, but it was not sportsmanship either.
The bolded part - if you do that in un-officiated match means it simply you are not a cheater. If you do not do that you would be a cheater. Again, some here simply argue that sportsmanship is going --beyond-- the rules, even if that benefits the opponent and not you.Well some of them cost me something - reversing an out call costs me the point. Admitting I tipped a ball when the opponent didn't know costs me the point. Admitting a ball touched me as it went long costs me the point. I do all those things too.
Sportsmanship, to me, is respecting the game, playing fairly and by the rules, and respecting your opponent.
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