I just started Pickleball myself. I'd highly recommend the Juciao Spin 1.0 and the Titanium paddles.
Both comfortable, excellent control fron anywhere on the court, soft with long dwel-time for dinking. The Spin 1.0 has very rough "grit" on it and feels more spin-friendly, while the Titanium paddle a more all-around.
For your first paddle, don't go thinner than the standard 16mm. It may feel too stiff for you, especially after long dinking where the wrist and elbow are almost 100% locked and you push with the shoulder, until you get comfortable with more wristy top-spin dinks. If you're from the USA, you'll have tons of options: 11six24, Neonic and other badget-friendly options.
Also, so far, I like paddles with small cirumference and round-shaped handles. 2 of my paddles feel like L2 tennis size handles with pronounced bevels and I don't enjoy them.