I have a flex league opponent who has, on three different occassions, committed to play our match, only to back out the next day saying that he can't make it or that he forgot that he already had something scheduled. Each time he backs out, we are more than 24 hours from the play time/date. In general, I don't like the thought of defaulting someone (I paid for the match so I would prefer to play it), but I don't like being jerked around either. Has anyone ever had this happen? How did you handle it?