What I dont think you're understanding is that much of the anger is not mysgonistic on this board or angry at you for challenging gender norms; its frustration of trying not to sound mysgonistic when presenting you with facts that say women cannot, at their peak, be as athletic as men at their peak. Its not a gender issue; we're not relying on gender norms to say what a sex can or cannot do, or saying that women are mentally incapable of hanging with males. Ideally, what you say is correct; if a woman had the drive to train at the level or above the level of a man, she could hang with them...but this is in an ideal setting, where the physiological peaks of men and women are not a factor. but in the real world, those peaks are definitely real and present. I'm not saying it'd be bad for a woman to try to train at the level of an atp pro or try to hang with them, heck, if they did, it could only make the women's game better. But at some point that physical peak would come into play and the woman would lose, because for all the angles in the book, she would not physically be able to handle the pace and hit the balls she wanted to. This isnt a Gender argument, its a simple physiological difference between the sexes. you might just be continuing to argue because you get a laugh out of getting guys on a tennis board riled up, but until you pull the joke, we have to assume you're actually ignoring facts.