Height has nothing to do with it, and while obviously hand size has something to do with it, it's not the only thing. Players with similar sized hands play with vastly different grips depending on game style and preference.
I'll vote for grip size per whatever feels comfortable when you swing it.
It can also be the case that one maker's grip profile feels right in one size while another might feel better either a size larger or smaller. Prince grips run on the small side for me, but my Volkls are big and block-ish. Wonderful for me - bad for others.
Very subjective issue regardless of the actual dimensions of a player's hands.