Throw in a sticky bun and I'll cure you.
That sounds kinda dirty :twisted:
Throw in a sticky bun and I'll cure you.
Do you really not understand the difference between hitting a return at someone at the net and trying to injure them by headhunting? Intent is important here. I go at the person at the net tons, but am never trying to hit the person, I am trying to win the point. Conversely, I am thrilled when someone is stupid enough to try to go through me at the net...
Your statement was that a person returning serves during warmups is a reason for you to headhunt, don't try to backtrack your BS. Going at the netman(woman) is nothing other than strategy, or at least that is the way it should be. You are the one who is into retaliation and aggression, and into seeing it in others all the time.
I think you need to see someone for your anger issues, you seem to see reasons to retaliate against people all over the place.
That's the USUAL internet advice given by those who have anger issues themselves--it's called PROJECTION--I'm not a shrink, but I did sleep at a Holiday Inn Express last night.
Played a match this weekend that reminded me of this thread.
Opponent was trying to hit return 'winners' during warmup. I don't see that happen a lot at 4.5, but whatever... I had already warmed up with teammates previously, and I don't actually go for my serve in warmup anyway. So after a few of those I told him I've had enough serve warmup and that was that.
Made no difference either way in the match itself. So I think people are making a big deal over nothing.
So by returning a few warmup serves people get used to your spins?
OK.....
Well if that bothers you then next time do the same thing as them, warmup earlier so you keep your spins super secret.
I mean what do you expect: someone to walk up and shout: "Rule, rule, rule! Can't do this, code violation: taking advantage of secret spin serve used while warming up"?
Wow, we found another genius in this forum. Amazing intelligent poster. Why can't more people on this forum be like you. I can only wish.
One more question, how do you stop opponents from doing shadow swings like crazy person, right before I serve to them. it bothers me. now this is during the match.
Nah...you got it wrong...am I into retaliation...sure I am especially if you come at me. You can play on words but let me ask you. At the 4.5 level...do you push the ball at the guy at the net to get the point or do you go at them(obviously aiming for their feet). I'm asking because none of us are pros. If you hit the poor guy in the face or God forbid the groin area...I mean you did hurt them. Whether the intent was there or not you went at them to get a point and you know just like I know you don't push the ball to the person at the net...and if you do...you will certainly get it rifled back at you(to get the point) at 4.5...and even 4.0...it's the way it is. Like I said...I've never had anyone blast my practice serve back off the fence while I'm warming up...if someone did it and I ask you not to do it and you still do...yea, you are going to have some problems because you are now giving me problems that neither of us need. So you keep your panty attitude. I'll keep a good one until you do something have no business. You say I have anger issues(which is clearly bs)....I say are one person most women wouldn't be caught dead on the court with because you'll fold up like a tent the first time someone does light your female partner up and say it's part of the game while giving him and his female partner a pass. Call it what you will...it is ehat it is...again...don't start none...there won't be none...I still hold to that and I'm not backing off of that.
Nah...you got it wrong...am I into retaliation...sure I am especially if you come at me. You can play on words but let me ask you. At the 4.5 level...do you push the ball at the guy at the net to get the point or do you go at them(obviously aiming for their feet). I'm asking because none of us are pros. If you hit the poor guy in the face or God forbid the groin area...I mean you did hurt them. Whether the intent was there or not you went at them to get a point and you know just like I know you don't push the ball to the person at the net...and if you do...you will certainly get it rifled back at you(to get the point) at 4.5...and even 4.0...it's the way it is. Like I said...I've never had anyone blast my practice serve back off the fence while I'm warming up...if someone did it and I ask you not to do it and you still do...yea, you are going to have some problems because you are now giving me problems that neither of us need. So you keep your panty attitude. I'll keep a good one until you do something have no business. You say I have anger issues(which is clearly bs)....I say are one person most women wouldn't be caught dead on the court with because you'll fold up like a tent the first time someone does light your female partner up and say it's part of the game while giving him and his female partner a pass. Call it what you will...it is ehat it is...again...don't start none...there won't be none...I still hold to that and I'm not backing off of that.
Played a match this weekend that reminded me of this thread.
Opponent was trying to hit return 'winners' during warmup. I don't see that happen a lot at 4.5, but whatever...
That's exactly right.... He gets it. He's acting like he's never ran into some @$$holes before on the court. 4.5 my Arse.lol
Great example, Bartoli, there's someone who gets along with others, especially her father and the the French Federation--yah, that's a pair I want to model my game on.
...I am of the mind that this is due to your deep seated anger issues (which you deny but keep demonstrating here).
Well there you go again, dx'ing psychological conditions over the intenet, whatever happened to the couch? And just as irrationally you think you know you can hit a forehand DTL harder then he can--based on what empirical knowledge of yours? You are sharpening your skills of PROJECTING though--nothing like virtual pyssing matches on a message board--I'm gonna' pop a few Flomaxes and shoot for the fences.
What the OP has been referring to is an opponent having some discretion and social tennis skills, not blasting shots at a woman player, who is a step up from a beginner, in a rec match, who obviously doesn't have the athletic skills to protect herself of a professional lady wrestler. A skilled player can control and win matches in such a situation, without resorting to brute force, using spin and placement instead.
This thread leads me to believe there are a lot of very very fussy people playing tennis.
Ok, instead of getting mad and fighting with those jerks that returns your practice serves... Here is what I decided to do. I am going to practice warmup serves only, nothing big. and if some jerk decided to returns it, I will hit a approach shot and go into the net. This way I will get grooved on my Serves as well as hitting approach shots and going into net for good position.
This will serve 2 purposes. I can still warmup my serves and send a signal that I can rip any of your returns and go to the net and put you in disadvantage.![]()
SamP, yes you are right, the whole world is overwrought with aggression and you are the only calm mind left--please let us know what ashram you are playing at, I want to join you, are you at Mt. Madonna? By the sixth page of any thread, who knows or cares what the OP was about anymore--there is no rationality left at this point--nor should there be any. Anything of any import has been stated in the first page or two, Any one left standing or posting works for the government, is on SSI or is retired--I'm here to practice my typing skills. If you'd quit brain-storming here you could've be a 5.0 by now.
SamP, yes you are right, the whole world is overwrought with aggression and you are the only calm mind left--please let us know what ashram you are playing at, I want to join you, are you at Mt. Madonna? By the sixth page of any thread, who knows or cares what the OP was about anymore--there is no rationality left at this point--nor should there be any. Anything of any import has been stated in the first page or two, Any one left standing or posting works for the government, is on SSI or is retired--I'm here to practice my typing skills. If you'd quit brain-storming here you could've be a 5.0 by now.
Don't read much do you? Or is it simply a comprehension problem?
Well there you go again, dx'ing psychological conditions over the intenet, whatever happened to the couch? And just as irrationally you think you know you can hit a forehand DTL harder then he can--based on what empirical knowledge of yours? You are sharpening your skills of PROJECTING though--nothing like virtual pyssing matches on a message board--I'm gonna' pop a few Flomaxes and shoot for the fences.
What the OP has been referring to is an opponent having some discretion and social tennis skills, not blasting shots at a woman player, who is a step up from a beginner, in a rec match, who obviously doesn't have the athletic skills to protect herself of a professional lady wrestler. A skilled player can control and win matches in such a situation, without resorting to brute force, using spin and placement instead.
awwww here we go with the insults because I don't agree with your little 4.5 analysis. I understand clearly...you don't know what the f'k you're talking about or you're delusional....see how easy that was. How about this.....How about you keep playing the way you play and I keep playing the way I play and agree to disagree opposed to insulting each other. Deal?
Referring to the fact that he is a lower level player when assuming that I hit with more pace than he does - a safe assumption since I am a 4.5 player and generally hit with plenty of pace.
You seem to be having a bit of a problem yourself since you seem to need to leap to the defense of the other poster and to put words in my mouth. Perhaps I should psychoanalyze you as well? The other poster's words drip with aggression, so not remotely a stretch to assume he has anger problems. Maybe you do too? Hmmmm
In addition, I am obviously (as I've said at multiple points in this thread) talking about playing with 4.5 or higher women players, who generally would be insulted if you thought they would be scared to be hit at. Generally 4.5 or 5.0 women who like to play with and against pace are the ones who play 9.0 or 10.0 mixed. They are not (again generally) upset by having the ball hit at them, they seem to rather enjoy putting it away at the feet of the net man instead.
Dude...don't flatter yourself...you made too many assumptions. About half the tourneys I play during the year are played at 4.5....you're not talking to some 3.0 head case. I just don't see a need to try and one up you with the level of play. That's why I asked you what difference it made. It really doesn't once you get to 4.0. You are expected to as they say in boxing(protect yourself at all times). We just have a difference of opinion. The guys at 4.5 are better players but the attitude is quite the same when it comes to balls being directed at you as a player..especially men. You don't gripe about getting tagged in the chest with a volley or knees etc...Even if you did get tagged elswhere you pretty much have to blame yourself or your partner. The person hitting the ball is never at fault for your partner leaving a hanging curve ball if you will or you moving like a turtle and not getting out of the way.
I and you have the right to the entire court and as you said or tried to put it as nice as you said..."coming my way to get the point" ....okay...whatever...that's the way it's played most of the time but there is the every now and then ball that really gets pelted at you because people think you made a bad call or any number of reasons. If you're telling us you've never experienced that at 4.5...then you are not being honest here. You can play on my words all you want but I will stand by the fact that if you are disrespectful then you whatever you get you asked for it. Your level of disrespect will determine on what you get and many players agree with that no matter what level you're playing.
So basically you completely agree with me, good to know.
Oh, and if you are playing competitive mixed with a 3.0 woman as a 4.0, then you are playing 7.0 and should be ashamed of yourself, unless you're trying to pick up dates.
Namaste...I play at 14,000 ft in a Tibetan Buddhist monastery in Nepal on a court made if ice.
What kind of balls do they use up there? Do you use cleats or ice skates?
You guys are hillarious.
10 pages on why its so terrible to warm up a particular shot. Its possibly going to be the first shot I hit in the match and one im going to play on around 50% of the points. Only thing I'm trying to acheive in the warm-up is a little info about my oponent and the playing surface. I want to know how the ball rises of the surface.
Done.