Cindysphinx
G.O.A.T.
I'm a 3.5 older lady, and 8.0 mixed has always been a huge challenge. I am not strong from the baseline, so I get overpowered. My volleys are good for my level, but they break down badly when faced with the pace and spin 4.0 and 4.5 guys can generate. I don't know my win percentage in 8.0 mixed as a 3.5 or when I was a 4.0, but wins were rare. It was humiliating and demoralizing to miss return after return, to be picked on for two hours, to be pushed back behind the baseline, and to have my lobs while trapped back there punished.
Well, I've figured a few things out.
Cindy -- who only pretends to listen cheerfully when her 4.5 male partners coach her on stroke mechanics
Well, I've figured a few things out.
- Placement is way more important than power. I used to try to smack my volleys or overheads hard enough to put them away. This never worked, and I made too many errors doing it. Now, I am more likely to hit a drop volley than a penetrating one, and I am more likely to hit a slice passing shot than a blast. And when I'm really using my brain, I can place a volley in a spot where both opponents will try for it.
- Slice returns are money all night long. If I can touch the return, keep a firm wrist, and move forward into it no matter how hot the serve is, good things happen. I can at a minimum start the point, and if I'm lucky my slice will give the opposing guy trouble.
- Receive the woman's serve as close to the service line as possible, and slice it into her alley. Being close opens up an angle so the opposing guy has to leave early to reach it, so discourages poaching. And if he leaves early enough, slice it into his alley.
- Get out of NML, especially after serving. Back the heck up because the opponents' best play is not a drop shot with my lightening fast 4.5 at the service line. Their best move is to crush my serve back at my feet, so serve and get ready to defend.
- My job is not to win the match. My job is to not lose the match. Get some balls in the court and let my 4.5 partner do his job.
Cindy -- who only pretends to listen cheerfully when her 4.5 male partners coach her on stroke mechanics